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I'd advise you to stay away from pretty much all pickup books. They are mostly targeted to guys that don't have the balls to actually try to put what they read into practice. Just flirt with girls without worrying about techniques and then come here and post what you've done or have any questions. Once you leave high school, it's less of a popularity contest with women and more about how you make them feel.
What's the issue with them? Personally, I think "The Game" is just a load of fiction and is pretty useless, but reading Gambler and Kezia's stuff has helped me (and will probably help others) with stuff like kino, escalation etc. where most including myself faltered.
On another note; I dunno why anyone would buy a pick-up book, let alone read one if they had no interest in picking up. I don't follow the logic.
I meant exactly what I said. Pretty much all of them are crap. Most guys that buy them are looking for magic and when they actually do get something practical,they don't have the balls to try. Sure there are a rare few that will put what they've read into practice but that's rare.
I'm glad that it worked for you but in my opinion you get better by just approaching without filling your head with something that takes away from your own authenticity and then coming here to the forum for feedback, reality, and maybe some tough love.
Secondly, most pickup books steal from solid psychology and muddy it into incorrect theory. I'm not saying that they are all bad, but the majority is shit.