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I keep trying to cut bricks with a butter knife, and it's not working, what should I do?
Stop using a butter knife!
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I keep trying to cut bricks with a butter knife, and it's not working, what should I do?
Stop using a butter knife!
R.C would tell you stop trying to cut bricks
So then why is it working for me?

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I am a polyglot. At university, I speak English, German, French, Italian and some Japanese. My native tongue is Spanish.
I've had success kiss closing in all those languages, because I'm fluent and have nothing to prove. When you are not fluent, most likely will come across as a DLV, because you will put yourself in the spotlight by yelling: hey, I want you to like me! Look, I don't speak spanish but im seeking your aproval. You are not having fun and you are in fact triggering the: "this guy is trying hard switch" Is like performing a magic trick wrong or failing to deliver the punchline to a joke. Use accordingly. if you want to show off your spanish skills, framing is key. Delivery should be queen.

You see... I'm a language pro: that's my identity and I'm passionate about that since junior high... so it comes across as a DHV to pick her up in her native tongue because I am not putting any extra effort to it. It flows. Also if I am talking with a French girl, I won't tell her... hey! I speak x,y and z too. Value is embeeded into behavior.


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dont speak Spanish around latin women.

why it turns them off. they might not be in their culture. or want to date out their culture
He said it right. From my experience this is usually the issue for me. I would meet a latin girl all into me and then i talk spanish and interest slowly declines if i don't keep it up. I've learned that these girls are usually not into latin guys and are attracted to me because they think im black american
How are you so sure that's why they aren't into you? Most women lose interest in you. You usually act awkward and weird.
I would say you're partially right. interest declines when i loose interest as well and put less effort into the interactions

But usually i can tell the attraction changes because the girls will literally say "oh you speak spanish, i thought you was..." And from there they would either play hard to get or try to friendzone. But don't get it wrong, i still do end up closing some of them if i put in the work.i have a mixed background and still tend to flip the attraction switches since i can give them the best of both worlds


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What the hell are you guys talking about lol. I speak fluent Spanish and this has not been an issue. In fact, I don't use it at all. and if I do it's usually in passing like if I was speaking at home or whatever.


Yall are looking too much into this.... :lol: but it's funny to read.

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cutting bricks is working for or giving bad advice is working for you?

i cant tell clearly what you mean

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OP is confused himself


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then this post is done. sticking a fork in it?

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hi guys
I figured out a possible answer. obviously, different girls are turned off for different reasons but one reason is that it makes you look like a racist.
I figured it out today. I was at some coffee shop and you know those weird guys that start a random conversation with random people? so this guy asks me "where are you from?" I tell him and he starts saying some words in my native language like "hello" "how are you?" "nice to meet you"
at this point, I am thinking "I speak english, you speak english. why are you speaking to me in a different language? why are you treating me as if I am different?"
it really makes you look like a racist when you do that.


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I figured out a possible answer. obviously, different girls are turned off for different reasons but one reason is that it makes you look like a racist.
I figured it out today. I was at some coffee shop and you know those weird guys that start a random conversation with random people? so this guy asks me "where are you from?" I tell him and he starts saying some words in my native language like "hello" "how are you?" "nice to meet you"
at this point, I am thinking "I speak english, you speak english. why are you speaking to me in a different language? why are you treating me as if I am different?"
it really makes you look like a racist when you do that.

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hi guys
I figured out a possible answer. obviously, different girls are turned off for different reasons but one reason is that it makes you look like a racist.
I figured it out today. I was at some coffee shop and you know those weird guys that start a random conversation with random people? so this guy asks me "where are you from?" I tell him and he starts saying some words in my native language like "hello" "how are you?" "nice to meet you"
at this point, I am thinking "I speak english, you speak english. why are you speaking to me in a different language? why are you treating me as if I am different?"
it really makes you look like a racist when you do that.

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I figured out a possible answer. obviously, different girls are turned off for different reasons but one reason is that it makes you look like a racist.
I figured it out today. I was at some coffee shop and you know those weird guys that start a random conversation with random people? so this guy asks me "where are you from?" I tell him and he starts saying some words in my native language like "hello" "how are you?" "nice to meet you"
at this point, I am thinking "I speak english, you speak english. why are you speaking to me in a different language? why are you treating me as if I am different?"
it really makes you look like a racist when you do that.

i disagree.

though i have a friend who always says ''konichiwa'' to japanese girls when they pass. i've advise him not to

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lol the kind of conclusions some guys on this forum come to


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lol the kind of conclusions some guys on this forum come to
fascinating how the human mind works huh

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lol the kind of conclusions some guys on this forum come to
fascinating how the human mind works huh
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