Funny how that happens.

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Fuck all this niceness..if there was another dude there is no SPACE for nicenes! Simple as that! Fuck all this baloney about emotional self-control.

The next time she attempts to start a conversation , just tell her " Listen ,I have no interest in talking to you in ANY manner , friends or not. Don't contact my family. Don't stalk me around the gym. Don't keep trying to edge your way back into my life. I am in no shape or form interested ok?"

And in the meanwhile you better prepare yourself to fuck other girls,you've just cut ties with her, one-itis is coming...

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To be honest I'd rather be sad and not know why than get back into the place where I , as little as cared, about her and what she does.
In my defence - it was my first SERIOUS relationship. I needed that experience to not let it happen again and mature in that sense.
As said before, wasn't aware of that at the time but I agree.
Well, I don't want to get stuck in the spiral of hatred as I do not need these kind of emotions influencing my life. I just communicated it to her and it's case closed. Don't need to prepare to fuck other girls - I've already done so. She's not worth one-itis!


Thank you gentlemen, case closed.

Haha ! Legend mate !!

And good on you op that you are fucking other girls. You've already sold it for the most part.

Personally i don't buy into all this niceness emotional control hatred whatever bs. It's called being direct. I feel a lot better when i release it my emotions instead of holding it in. And meditation and emotional control does nothing for me in that aspects, won't change the facts .

This wussy emotional control stuff only started 21st century, our fathers and forefathers certainly wouldn't be all pc nice guy ( or "good guy" whatever you want to call it).

what do you mean?

Fucking other girls won't help resolve your attachment issues, and in fact can exacerbate them.

Connection with others WILL help heal you, and that also means connecting to yourself.

. You've literally just said an oxymoron. Answer this question and i'll know if you trippin or not:

If a dude is attached and sees a girl as a special snowflake , would he still see her as one after fucking dozen SMOKING hot girls who are blowing up his phone with texts and DM'ing him with hot pictures of their moist , delicious vagina?

Yeah, he probably will.

Sorry but that's just reality. The reason for special snowflake syndrome is not how hot a woman is, but rather how connected you were/think you were with said hottie plus the helplessness associated with being under the impression you will not be finding anything remotely as good again.

Contrary to PUA theory men are more than just walking dildos. Mystery himself would fuck a different girl every other day and he was still suicidal.

As Eddie once pointed out, the only thing men want from a woman more than sex is affection.

Does meeting other women/people help? Yes, sure it does. Because doing so inevitably exposes you to experiences and opens your eyes to the reality that there are plenty of interesting/beautiful women out there.

However there's a difference between that and what you're describing.

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