I know the pitfall of falling into paralysis by analysis but there HAS to be a healthy form of analysis for game. Generally, I tend to think of my interactions in terms of "Did I do well?" or "Did I NOT do well?" But I'm finding it rather lacklustre in terms of getting much from the interactions. I know writing field reports are supposed to help but what are the elements of a good field report? What's your review process? What questions should I be asking after I sarge?

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What can I do better.

How can I do better

What did I do well...


etc.

What did I learn from the experience.

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Pick one thing to work on and do it until it comes naturally, then pick a new thing. Too many guys just talk to women as practice with no direction. I choose to be a mastery student over an outcome student now.

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How can SHE do better

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1) Have I been completely congruent with my feelings and intentions? 2) Did I express myself honestly?

If I made myself vulnerable by doing the above, I expressed myself truthfully (i.e. polarized), and if she didn't reciprocate, I move on.

How are you supposed to get better then? You can be genuine and honest all you want, takes more to consistently pick up on cold approaches.

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Because it forces you to consider your own actions in accordance with what it is you wanted from a particular interaction.

If the girl you talked to was having a bad day, had urgent things to do that night, was dealing with personal problems, etc., sitting there over-analyzing what you could have done differently wouldn't change that.

I have a very simple review process and plan. I seek out, and only sleep with a specific type of woman. When single, I will simply walk through bar after bar (not even wasting my time sitting down) if I do not find this type.

Criteria:

1. Long, feminine hair (with a preference to brunettes).
2. Slender. No husky, masculine builds.
3. High, defined cheekbones.
4. Big, alien eyes or "doe-like" eyes.
5. witty banter (reveals a strong personality and intelligence).



This is it. If these things are not there, I'm not interested. I'd rather jerk off.


Automatic dis-qualifiers :

1. wine glass in hand all the time (I run from these women)
2. Obesity
3. Agenda-driven
4. Too many "why" questions: 'why do you wear that shirt?' 'why aren't you married'? etc. These women go into the nag category. Imagine them in a month, lol. Awful.
5. Materialistic women. They will have no part my life. I'd rather date stoners who read and live in a shitty apartment than SUV-driving mall jockeys.


When I enter a bar, I do not ask myself "how can I do better?". I ask myself "are any of these women worthy of me?"

I work out hard, every other day. I read. I write. I do not watch TV unless my gf wants to chill. I go to museums. I hike. I do photography. I am always trying to learn and evolve, and I expect the women I interact with too as well.

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Man, I bet nights out with you are so uneventful. Don't take it personally but I really couldn't stand to hang around with guys that only consider interacting with unicorns

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I'm not part of the frat, and prefer to go out with no other males. I have male work peers, and enjoy this forum, but only interact with women socially otherwise. I'm kind of like that big ole bull moose. I do my own thing.

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Thanks for your replies, I'll consider these things and see how I can put them to use. I used to go out a lot and never learned much from my time in-field because I'd come home drunk by the end of the night. Never really daygamed so if you want to talk me into it then go right ahead, I'm still on the fence with it.

So basically I just screen right from the start like Arch does but with my own preferences. When I review my skills I figure out what I did well, what I didn't do well, if I was congruent, etc etc. I'll bear these in mind for now.

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stop drinking,you cant learn anything if you cant remember

Thanks for responses.

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He likes creepy looking women with huge eyes, pretty much like Grey Aliens often reported on conspiracy theory sties. I guess even the creepy looking women need love too.

"How is this serving my life?"