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Drag is 4hww good? Heard the guy was a con man when I was looking for a new book to read last week so stayed away from it.


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Drag is 4hww good? Heard the guy was a con man when I was looking for a new book to read last week so stayed away from it.
Nah man.

It was a little cheeky that he wrote a book on how to be wealthy when in fact the book made him the wealth lol. But that's the thing, he doesn't use short-cuts, he just works smarter not harder.

It's a little outdated but the mindsets and general advice is epic.

One of the Bestsellers of all time and the reviews on Amazon speaks for itself. You're gonna get a lot of haterz (People that failed) but the majority are very happy. I have a few friends living the dream right now. Earning $10k a month PASSIVELY and just roaming the world. They all said it started from reading that book. I am not wealthy yet but my life is much better now that I finally free'd myself from 9-5

At the end of the day, you're sacrificing your 8 hours a day for 5 days a week, in return of 2 free only? Wouldn't you rather work 2 days and have 5 days off and get more money and not be limited with vacation time?

Life is short. You won't regret it.

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Drag is 4hww good? Heard the guy was a con man when I was looking for a new book to read last week so stayed away from it.
Nah man.

It was a little cheeky that he wrote a book on how to be wealthy when in fact the book made him the wealth lol. But that's the thing, he doesn't use short-cuts, he just works smarter not harder.

It's a little outdated but the mindsets and general advice is epic.

One of the Bestsellers of all time and the reviews on Amazon speaks for itself. You're gonna get a lot of haterz (People that failed) but the majority are very happy. I have a few friends living the dream right now. Earning $10k a month PASSIVELY and just roaming the world. They all said it started from reading that book. I am not wealthy yet but my life is much better now that I finally free'd myself from 9-5

At the end of the day, you're sacrificing your 8 hours a day for 5 days a week, in return of 2 free only? Wouldn't you rather work 2 days and have 5 days off and get more money and not be limited with vacation time?

Life is short. You won't regret it.

Thanks man. I'll get it on your recommendation


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The only thing left unacknowledged in the 4HWW was the fact (actually just a supposition on my part) that, for most product you put in the market, if sellable they will sell for only a given time. Ferriss makes it sound as if you just need to get the idea for a new gizmo, sell it, and you're done for the rest of your life. I think the reality is more like you need to either think of a new gizmo every two year or so, or work on improving your gizmo, add features, etc.

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I can recommend the 4HWW as well. It's got good information in it. He openly admits that his product (information) is one of the best types to sell - because of low overhead, ease of copying it to sell, and the trouble of duplicating it.

I'm glad you guys realize money is really about freedom and opportunity. Having a ton of money in the bank doesn't do anything unless you use it and it should be used on experience first, then tangibles. And trust me, for the most part you don't want girls around you that are just interested in money. They will forget you when the next guy comes along with more of it. It usually doesn't lead to healthy relationships of any kind.

Most guys would not turn down living like that dude, I know I would smush each tail on that ship for sure. This choice comes down to what you want in life and being happy. I know I prefer variety, and want many people in my life. If you take care of yourself, have a decent job and are social, it's very easy to meet people.


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Monogamy and polyamory are, at the end of the day, choices.

However, I also believe polyamory is tough to maintain just as monogamy. I haven't been in a polyamorous relationship, but I've had very strong attraction for 2 individuals around the same time. And for me, it sucked. Too many emotions, too much havoc. Sure, I enjoyed the company of both men, but at the end of the day when I got home apart from them, my emotions would go all over the place. So, I had to cut one loose at that point.

I think what keeps some of you into polyamory is those feel good neurotransmitters. Of course, the beginning of a relationship is a hella lot more enjoyable than 3 years down the road annoying each other. You don't have to deal with the issues that a married couple would, let's say.

You're catching on :D. It's one of the benefits. Another great benefit is the elmination of me ever cheating on someone. If she ever sees my phone going off, I don't have to tell her specifics. If she does give me shit...well...bye bye

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This is an unpopular opinion but I think Dan is overrated.

Sure his lifestyle is awesome. For about 2 months.

I can easily see it getting boring real quick real fast but at the same time I understand it's appeal.

I'd definitely do it for a short while.

As I'm writing this reply I'm realizing I'm virtually confirming my initial post. I guess I work in phases. I need the best of both worlds.

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I think what we really idolize of him is his self made status. I honestly don't think he is attractive, yes he is masculine but his face is crooked and who knows if he has a pleasing personality. I'm not jealous of his looks or that particular lifestype. I'm jealous of his freedom. His routine is up to him. If he wants to party on his boat, he can. If he wants to go to Haiti on a mission trip, he can. Most people if they work hard can get to the same place.

I honestly think that his self made status is more attractive than the actual # of dollars he has in the bank or # of girls he's banged.


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I think what we really idolize of him is his self made status. I honestly don't think he is attractive, yes he is masculine but his face is crooked and who knows if he has a pleasing personality. I'm not jealous of his looks or that particular lifestype. I'm jealous of his freedom. His routine is up to him. If he wants to party on his boat, he can. If he wants to go to Haiti on a mission trip, he can. Most people if they work hard can get to the same place.

I honestly think that his self made status is more attractive than the actual # of dollars he has in the bank or # of girls he's banged.

I was just talking about this the other day with one of my dude friends. I want to have the freedom to just do anything I want. I don't have to have a yacht to be happy. I just want to wake up and say "hmm, I really want a new tv" and the same day buy that t.v. I don't necessarily need a mansion to be happy. I don't even know what I would do with all that space. I grew up in NYC apartment. The fact that I have a balcony and a room that can fit a bed, furniture and I still have room to do a spinarooni is already comfortable for me. I would probably just invest in helping the less fortunate while being a party boy if I had all the money in the world.





Or say "hmm, I want to go to Mexico next week" and go to Mexico next week. That is freedom. Or just be like "hmm I want to have a party this week with 50 people" is my ideal lifestyle. Etc.

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Problem with freedom is, most people don't know what to do with it. Just look at the population of retired people spending their day in front of the TV.

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Problem with freedom is, most people don't know what to do with it. Just look at the population of retired people spending their day in front of the TV.
These are the same people that 'never have time' for gym, pickup, wealth etc

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^ what Dragula said. My roommate once told me "don't you just feel like not doing anything sometimes, just laying down and watching tv"


I told him not really. I like doing things. I watch tv while doing the dishes or if I have 30 mins or an hour to spare. He knows better now.

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Not sure if this has been said already, but I think a guy with a low lay count is less likely to be monogamous, lol - he's taking whatever he can get. When I was terrible with women, I cheated on girls and fucked friends girlfriends and everything just because I took the little amount that I could get.

Guys who get a lot of girls aren't usually scared to turn girls down. Infact, most are used to it. If a girl tries to flirt with me and I'm not single, I don't think "this could be my only chance with her" or any of that shit like I used to.

As for girls, every girl has abundance, I generally expect the ones with high lay counts to be unfaithful. Huge turn offs for me are vaginas with high mileage and a girl who cheated on her ex. I consider both to be a huge warning sign of a cheater.

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Not sure if this has been said already, but I think a guy with a low lay count is less likely to be monogamous, lol - he's taking whatever he can get. When I was terrible with women, I cheated on girls and fucked friends girlfriends and everything just because I took the little amount that I could get.

Guys who get a lot of girls aren't usually scared to turn girls down. Infact, most are used to it. If a girl tries to flirt with me and I'm not single, I don't think "this could be my only chance with her" or any of that shit like I used to.

As for girls, every girl has abundance, I generally expect the ones with high lay counts to be unfaithful. Huge turn offs for me are vaginas with high mileage and a girl who cheated on her ex. I consider both to be a huge warning sign of a cheater.


Wouldn't the guy who takes anything be more willing to get monogamous and get the girl off the market ? Isn't that the usual route.

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