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PostPosted: Mon Jul 25, 2016 4:36 am 
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I understand where you are coming from since you say you actually do compliment. But why would you wait until the moment that you're in bed or just about to be in the bed with her? Isn't it still a lazy compliment(I think that's what you called it) at that point? At that point, what makes it different? Is it now that you've got her in the bed, you can be lazy now? "Mission accomplished."
I suppose the difference is - when things are getting hot, saying things like that is basically fuel for the fire. Sweet nothings.
That's funny to me. But if you're getting laid then that's all that matters.

back to the op...no one seems to notice that he was over texting a girl that said she wasn't feeling well and ar the same time wasn't able to build a real connection in person.

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There's no requirement that it has to make sense to you.

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Don't wear your arms out back-pedalling up the river.
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There's no requirement that your statements have to be intelligible.
Just to you, you're special.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 25, 2016 5:32 am 
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To the both of you...Settle this over a rap battle?

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 25, 2016 5:35 am 
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To the both of you...Settle this over a rap battle?
Nah dude, I forfeit. n2thevoid wins the internet. Most people here aren't total sticklers and didn't take my first post literally, eg. always = almost always. Anyway, I'm throwing in the towel. :)

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 25, 2016 5:44 am 
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By the way, regarding "mystery" and attraction:

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2 ... ce+News%29

Just some food for thought, I didn't make this stuff up.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 25, 2016 5:59 am 
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By the way, regarding "mystery" and attraction:

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2 ... ce+News%29

Just some food for thought, I didn't make this stuff up.
I've always said that uncertainty was seductive. Nothing new here. There is a huge difference between expressing attraction and telling a woman exactly where she stands with you and what your ultimate goal is.

EDIT - A ONS and/or flings are the exception of the uncertainty rule, IMO. Those are best for being more direct with your intentions for the most part.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 25, 2016 7:14 am 
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"Numerous popular books advise people not to display their affections too openly to a potential romantic partner and to instead appear choosy and selective," the authors write. Women in this study made their decisions based on very little information on the men -- but in a situation not unlike meeting someone on an internet dating site, which is common these days. "When people first meet, it may be that popular dating advice is correct: Keeping people in the dark about how much we like them will increase how much they think about us and will pique their interest."
Applies to both genders. I think the same could be said for sex. There's more tension built up if you wait for sex than give it up on the first date. Or second.
I'd suggest you guys flip through Robert Green's "The Art of Seduction".


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"Numerous popular books advise people not to display their affections too openly to a potential romantic partner and to instead appear choosy and selective," the authors write. Women in this study made their decisions based on very little information on the men -- but in a situation not unlike meeting someone on an internet dating site, which is common these days. "When people first meet, it may be that popular dating advice is correct: Keeping people in the dark about how much we like them will increase how much they think about us and will pique their interest."
Applies to both genders. I think the same could be said for sex. There's more tension built up if you wait for sex than give it up on the first date. Or second.
I'd suggest you guys flip through Robert Green's "The Art of Seduction".
Take that book with a grain of salt. Most of it's examples that he provides as proof are from fictional stories. The examples from real life people, there is a lot of letter writing and declarations of feelings. The uncertainty that's provided doesn't come from attraction not being communicated.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 25, 2016 7:47 am 
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Take that book with a grain of salt. Most of it's examples that he provides as proof are from fictional stories. The examples from real life people, there is a lot of letter writing and declarations of feelings. The uncertainty that's provided doesn't come from attraction not being communicated.
Fictional stories? Not at all. They are real life stories based on history. And a lot of his advice is legit.
I've used it, worked for me, but with certain types of men.

Anyway, it's a fun read.


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 25, 2016 7:48 am 
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Mixed answers here.. I won't get too much jnto it, but i think she was on her period, emotional, might have been horny, and told me she was nervous because she was walking home by herself. In my experience, girls emotions are fleeting. anyway, I'll hit her up midweek.


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 25, 2016 8:08 am 
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Take that book with a grain of salt. Most of it's examples that he provides as proof are from fictional stories. The examples from real life people, there is a lot of letter writing and declarations of feelings. The uncertainty that's provided doesn't come from attraction not being communicated.
Fictional stories? Not at all. They are real life stories based on history. And a lot of his advice is legit.
I've used it, worked for me, but with certain types of men.

Anyway, it's a fun read.
A lot of that book has examples taken from classical literature. Don Juan comes to mind. Most of the Asian examples are from classical stories. He's even used Shakespeare as an example. I've read it years ago and some of it has merit but a lot of it is fiction and false hope.

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Nothing sexy or attractive about being like every other guy... Mr. Bud Light, Pizza, NFL and Toyota Camry.

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What about a guy that is in shape, drinks water, eats clean, plays pro NFL and drives a Lambo - Would his compliments have a different effect?

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