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PostPosted: Sat Jul 23, 2016 8:25 pm 
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Hi all,
I'm an absolute beginner looking to score higher. So far (I'm 28) I've managed to get by being lucky (natural I guess), but most of those were at university - fish in a barrel frankly. I would never approach someone in the street so that's my first hurdle. Any suggestions of good boot camps or core reading would be appreciated.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 25, 2016 4:16 am 
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start with the basic opinion openers, run through about a 100 approaches in a couple weeks, constantly switching up openers look up some canned ones on the forum here or online, then start making your own.

Pickup/Game/Seduction w.e you like to call it is a lot about feeling and understanding interactions, you start seeing a lot of commonalities, signals, indicators of interest(IOI's) that girls do in.

Approaching and being in social dynamics constantly will help you evolve faster and get a feeling and second nature sense, that will help you figure out what to do in certain situations.

Within 5 to 15 minutes I know if I got the girl or not, and as soon as I get that signal from her I pull the trigger instantly and escalate into closing mode, I initiate a instant date, or I set it up where we hang out that night, and depending on certain situational circumstances I get a form of contacting her and meet up the next day or sometime in the close future.

One thing that will help your success rate with women is understanding how your coming off to them. Being conscious of how you're saying your words, how your body language is coming of to them, do you look needy, or alpha, do you come off as high value or low value? These little details will help you get to the success point you want to get to faster.


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 25, 2016 7:59 am 
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Thanks gameshine, as you say I need to break through that barrier of 'what if she just laughs in my face?'. Logically I know that I'd be in the same situation that I am now I.e. I'll probably never talk/see her again. It's the animal instinct to flee danger/embarrassment that I need to get through. There must be 10-15 women I see a day in London, I'll give you an update once I hit 100.

R


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 26, 2016 10:00 am 
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I need to break through that barrier of 'what if she just laughs in my face?'. Logically I know that I'd be in the same situation that I am now I.e. I'll probably never talk/see her again. It's the animal instinct to flee danger/embarrassment that I need to get through.R
But other than that, the way you want to approach this success with women thing is by going at it one step
at a time. Define your first challenge, and work to overcome it. Then recognise your second challenge, and
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