Imho sarabellum is stating theoretical principles, that applies or may apply to most of population, >50% ?? To the small sample of SPECIFIC population here on the forum.

What is more it seems that he is trying to apply the principles to everybody, that apply to most of the population

I think we have a name for the description being given...gold digger, is it?

He's saying that there has to be some type of monetary exchange for the girl to sleep with him. Even if it's just a drink.

....I'm pretty sure gold diggers play with bigger numbers

Kind of like your first thread.

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Copper diggers then. Same shit.

If you're in it for a financial gain, you're in it for the wrong reasons.

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What is with you people today. Chill.
Most women are gold diggers in the sense that they are seeking a decent guy that's going to help in providing for their offspring. Very few chicks are going to run off with some unemployed drug addicted alcoholic.

You're not a gold digger if you expect your partner to have financial security and not be a 30yo McDonalds employee on minimum wage.

You are a gold digger if you expect to be showered with gifts and/or other material items while you spend the better part of your day in a nail saloon gossiping, while having no intention of developing a career of your own.

The latter has very little to do with offspring. Gold diggers in general will have little concern about offspring.

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They will actually have 'concern' for offspring because that's where their income will be coming from if and when divorce time comes around. Offspring is their future investment lol.

Secondly, it's not always about looking to be showered with material gifts. Sure, those that are in it for the whole ride plus gifts most likely are.

There are women who have decent jobs that do not pay enough (assistants, technicians, hair stylists, house cleaners, etc.) and wouldn't mind 'marrying up'.They'll still work but the husband who earns the bigger salary will foot most of the bills. I don't really believe in the whole I married just for love because love is conditional. If a man or a woman has a good lifestyle, that's part of the equation that'll attract others to them.

That's assuming the gold digger is interested in getting married?

That's pretty much what gold diggers are, no?
Then she's not a gold digger.

Having a good lifestyle is part of the reason you love them. Ofcourse it's not unconditional. You can't truly love someone unless you can be proud of who they are and proud of calling yourself their gf.

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If a woman with a low earning potential is looking for a man with a higher earning potential (ex. let's contrast a hair dresser dating a lawyer, big contrast here not small), that's kind of golddigger-ish too. How is that not a gold digger? Not in a full blown sense, but it kind of is.

It's golddigger-ish if that's her main criteria.

There's nothing wrong in wanting a man that has financial security. There is something wrong in wanting a man mainly because he has financial security.

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Wanting a man who has his shit together vs. self-entitlement.

She conquered you so and you are no longer source of attraction to her. Simple is that. You are the one who makes all the effort. Guess what even if she interest in you, you will make all effort. Let her chase you by being less available, giving less energy. She should understand, if she wants attention, she must deserve it. Do not give unnecessarily effort as gift. Be bold and do not give shit.

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