So long story short: I been was gaming an HB7 on and off for about 8 months before I finally had the time to actually kick it with her. We been hanging for about 2 months and I finally fclosed. I'd say maybe the 2nd or third time i say something like she should be my girl. We subtly ask each other to be in a LTR but decided that since I just got out of one and she did not too long ago either we decide to just 'see how things go' and take our time. Thing is she drops hints as if she doesn't see me as being that dude. And I know this because I asked her about giving me a BJ but she says she only does this for a dude she is really feeling or connecting with on another level. Among other hints, but also like today texts me 'miss you' giving me mixed signals. I feel that I'm meeting some of her sexual needs, (she wants me to be more gentle/relaxed though) but I think I'm not meeting her emotional needs. Its very early (only been about just over 2 weeks since I first fclosed) but I want to take it to another level with her (not just for head lol). How can I connect with her on another level? (other than the usual i.e. things in common, her beloved dog) Sorry if I gave TMI, any advice is welcomed. Thanks

Stop verbally trying to sign contracts with her

You want to present a bf and gf by doing things that couples would do:
- Restaurants together
- Cinema
- Hanging out with each other's friends
- meeting the family
- ETC

Till suddenly you FEEL like a couple.

Then get bored and cheat on one another, but that's another story...

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Lol ^

Yes, stop trying to force commitment through verbal hoops she has to jump through. If it was a way she'd naturally behave, then you wouldn't be here.

Thanks fellas. I think you're on the money, I'm trying too hard to make her my gf, I'll just act like we already are in a relationship. I had a wedding to go to last week but didn't invite her because I didn't want her to think I'm moving too fast but after her reaction of not being invited and reading your advice I regret not inviting her to the wedding. I'll continue doing relationship type things and be push-pull with it. Thanks again.

Honestly, the best way to do this is to see each other often. At least 4+ times a week and I have no doubt you will become a couple

I see guys that do this with their 'fuck buddies' and then they wonder why the girl has fallen in love

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Very true. A couple often is around one another a lot. It is both a curse and a blessing to be able to do that. Naturally that should be the feeling of the relationship or else they don't like you "that" much. Just up the consistency but only to a level that each time she wants more.

I took a fuck buddy to Red Lobster once, by the end of the week I had to get a restraining order. Don't ever feed them!!

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