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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2016 5:06 am 
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There really isn't a good enough definition of this out there that seems to warrant why we it exists in PU dictionary. It doesn't seem to really say much, so I don't know how knowing about this would do your game any good.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2016 5:16 am 
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Kanye West - watch some interviews, the guy thinks he is a god and truly believes it to the core.

Some guys out there truly think that they are the most awesome guy a girl could ever meet and that is projected around them and girls can get sucked into that reality.

Some girls might thin think are a douche but then often they get sucked into it and believe to be so, too.

The opposite is true. If you think you're an intruder PUA creep then that is also your reality.

It's a delusion in my opinion which can be used on both spectrums of good and bad.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2016 8:48 pm 
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Kanye West - watch some interviews, the guy thinks he is a god and truly believes it to the core.

Some guys out there truly think that they are the most awesome guy a girl could ever meet and that is projected around them and girls can get sucked into that reality.

Some girls might thin think are a douche but then often they get sucked into it and believe to be so, too.

The opposite is true. If you think you're an intruder PUA creep then that is also your reality.

It's a delusion in my opinion which can be used on both spectrums of good and bad.
That sounds like a gimmick and so random. SO somebody just said be like Kanye West. That's so random.

Also, what aspect of it makes it weak vs strong.


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Being confident about yourself
and what you're doing in life goes a long way.

It also helps to be the man that has an attractive lifestyle
so you could get the women and social life you want.


If you have any questions feel free to ask. 8)

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I would like to take the time to write something. After your answers, I still could not understand it in a way that meets my criteria for understanding. This topic of strong reality has been bothering me for the past year. I kept trying to understanding it. After one year of being a madman and being stuck in my head 24/7 trying to understand this, it finally finally clicked for me while lying down to take a nap.

If you think you understand it, then you probably do. I do not want readers to suddenly question themselves.

I have no doubt that I take a little bit longer to understand things than most, probably due to the scrutiny I subject everything to. I question things every which way possible until it passes all of my tests. I probably experience OCD. I know that some people are too smart that they are dumb when it comes to common sense.

Conversely, I do think that it has merit to say that most people just regurgitate stuff and think they understand it.

I really believe that a person should get to the the F'ing root of it, until it passes THEIR criteria for understanding it. Make sure you know something as the original person who came up with it, to understand why they would come up with something like that. I don't stop until I know something like I have one nose, two ears, or 2+2=4.

Make sure things pass your criteria for understanding. If you feel you don't understand, then you don't. If you feel that you do, then you do.


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After one year of being a madman and being stuck in my head 24/7 trying to understand this, it finally finally clicked for me while lying down to take a nap.
Did Dragula explain it correctly? How he explained it is how I understood it.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2016 4:11 am 
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In hindsight, looking back at that comment, yes his example qualifies as having a strong reality. But it doesn not get to the core definition of it. It is not a core explanation. But again, maybe a core definition is not needed to understand the concept.

Again, I do have trouble understanding common sense. So it could be me.

Maybe the unspoken parts of it is obvious to you.

But I needed to have that "unspoken" laid out in writing for myself.


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Kanye West - watch some interviews, the guy thinks he is a god and truly believes it to the core.

Some guys out there truly think that they are the most awesome guy a girl could ever meet and that is projected around them and girls can get sucked into that reality.

Some girls might thin think are a douche but then often they get sucked into it and believe to be so, too.

The opposite is true. If you think you're an intruder PUA creep then that is also your reality.

It's a delusion in my opinion which can be used on both spectrums of good and bad.
That sounds like a gimmick and so random. SO somebody just said be like Kanye West. That's so random.

Also, what aspect of it makes it weak vs strong.
Did you read?

I never said to be like Kanye. I think he is a stupid cunt. But he has this deluded reality that he is god's older dad

But anyway. Your thread is mental masturbarion at its finest.

Like somehow knowing this IMPORTANT answer will evolve you like a Pokemon to make you better with women???

Its evidently only you that don't understand the definition of it. Would you like me to explain with puppets and diagrams?

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Kanye West - watch some interviews, the guy thinks he is a god and truly believes it to the core.

Some guys out there truly think that they are the most awesome guy a girl could ever meet and that is projected around them and girls can get sucked into that reality.

Some girls might thin think are a douche but then often they get sucked into it and believe to be so, too.

The opposite is true. If you think you're an intruder PUA creep then that is also your reality.

It's a delusion in my opinion which can be used on both spectrums of good and bad.
That sounds like a gimmick and so random. SO somebody just said be like Kanye West. That's so random.

Also, what aspect of it makes it weak vs strong.
Did you read?

I never said to be like Kanye. I think he is a stupid cunt. But he has this deluded reality that he is god's older dad

But anyway. Your thread is mental masturbarion at its finest.

It is not mental masturbation. If I had listened to guys like you telling me it's mental masturbation and "dude don't worry about it, just sarge", I would have never persevered and understood it.

Is studying ANYTHING really necessary to get good with girls? NO. You could just go out every night and naturally improve with experience. But on the other hand, it is cool to understand how social dynamics works, and to be a scientist. Some guys don't care, they just want to get laid. It could be argued that nothing on this forum really matters, just go out.

Knowing how this piece of knowledge works will not evolve me like a pokemon to get better with girls. What it will do is allow me to control this aspect of social dynamics so that it is no longer an element of randomness. When I see two people interacting, I will know what is going on. It is fun for it's own sake. I came from the really bottom bottom in terms of being social - to know how something works like this means a lot to me.


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2016 4:49 am 
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I came from 'the bottom' , too

It is MY STRONG REALITY that the answers to meaningless questions will not put you forward in life one bit. But each to their own.

I just had my nob sucked all morning, from an American and got an omelette afterwards

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In hindsight, looking back at that comment, yes his example qualifies as having a strong reality. But it doesn not get to the core definition of it. It is not a core explanation. But again, maybe a core definition is not needed to understand the concept.

Again, I do have trouble understanding common sense. So it could be me.

Maybe the unspoken parts of it is obvious to you.

But I needed to have that "unspoken" laid out in writing for myself.
I just find it odd that you've been searching for an answer for a year, came to the forum for help understanding it, and then once Dragula explains it to you, you understand within hours without getting any extra information after that. Maybe you should be more appreciative instead of griping about it not being good enough.

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I came from 'the bottom' , too

It is MY STRONG REALITY that the answers to meaningless questions will not put you forward in life one bit. But each to their own.

I just had my nob sucked all morning, from an American and got an omelette afterwards
How was the omelette?

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I came from 'the bottom' , too

It is MY STRONG REALITY that the answers to meaningless questions will not put you forward in life one bit. But each to their own.

I just had my nob sucked all morning, from an American and got an omelette afterwards
How was the omelette?
She was shaking the ketchup bottle really hard and I told she has been doing that all morning

The omelette was good:

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2016 4:58 am 
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In hindsight, looking back at that comment, yes his example qualifies as having a strong reality. But it doesn not get to the core definition of it. It is not a core explanation. But again, maybe a core definition is not needed to understand the concept.

Again, I do have trouble understanding common sense. So it could be me.

Maybe the unspoken parts of it is obvious to you.

But I needed to have that "unspoken" laid out in writing for myself.
I just find it odd that you've been searching for an answer for a year, came to the forum for help understanding it, and then once Dragula explains it to you, you understand within hours without getting any extra information after that. Maybe you should be more appreciative instead of griping about it not being good enough.
The reason I come to this forum is it allows me to consider how my writing comes off to other people as I am writing my material. I find that when I write in my own journal, I do not put as much effort into it. My writing in my journal doesn't make sense often times when I go back to it. Having the chance to write and discuss on a forum like this allows my brain to see the discussion taking place from a third person point of view if that makes sense. Things suddenly become more clear as I am writing to someone else on the other end. Often times, I end up answering my own questions when I put it out there on a forum. It allows me consider my question from a different angle. It is a very strange phenomenon that I have come to notice.

I am not griping about anything.

I appreciate anyone who helps me.


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2016 5:00 am 
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Well, your reply was pretty rude to be fair. Especially since I was the only guy bored enough to even entertain your thread and get it started

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