I'm not talking to that member, I'm talking to you.

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It's okay bud, I think you'll get over it with time. Be strong.

There we are. I've done the exact thing I said other people shouldn't do. I believed I could make a difference to someone who has absolutely no interest in bettering themselves. More fool me.

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To the female poster.. No... You would lie and id quote the true words to show you that you were lying. Difference of opinion is fine... Lying.. No.

To don... I dunno tbh. Forum has a way of sucking me into responding. Look at skinnys thread... Look at barts threads... Sometimes you just go back and forth. I'm assuming you think all that energy was because she was a female? I'd think not... People respond to stuff way more than they did on her threads.

I don't care if you better yourself or not. We are strangers. You shouldn't care either. Take whatever suits you.

I'm fine the way I am, thanks.

What did I lie about? Yeah, I quoted you a few times too.
This is the internet. Nobody holds you accountable to say the truth, or whether you do say the truth. It's up to you.
And why should you. It's anonymous. Next thing you know people on here are going to be asking for ID's.

I think you're about the only one on this forum who believes that, and if that means nothing to you then there's literally no reason for you to be here.

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You see I'm making a valid point though. I'm making it to myself as well, after what's occurred in this thread. But it's like I said about the exchanges I had elsewhere (YouTube/Facebook). I read the people's comments and I knew, I fucking knew that it wasn't going to achieve anything responding to these people. I knew what the right thing to do was, but my vanity got the better of me. I thought that maybe if my approach was clever enough I could get around the reality of who these people clearly were and get a result that I wanted out of the conversation. But in each case I got the result that I could have expected.

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The best simple advice I would give you is to stay in your own headspace. Women change their minds all the time, I don't want to say ALL, but most of them. I remember one woman telling me she wants to go slow and two days later telling me she changed her mind she wants to know what we were.



Before I answer further for what to do when a woman acts up, what situations do you consider a woman giving you shit.

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I don't understand what you mean. Can you elaborate?

I mean it takes a clever guy to make a logical argument, but it takes a smart guy to be a good enough judge of character to know if the other person will listen.

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I appreciate you taking the time to answer. But I've started to feel like I can, and should, start working this stuff out for myself. I can observe what other people are doing and emulate it where necessary, and your example has helped me. But I don't know having a discussion about it will really help. Honestly, I've started to question whether being on this forum, or looking at PUA materials in general, is helping my happiness. I posted a thread in general question about an interaction I had with a woman before I discovered game, and yeah it was kind of a mess, but it was just between me and her, and I kind of miss that. I feel like it's kind of unhealthy where the greater bond you have is with guys on a forum than with the woman herself, where those are the people you talk about the real deal with instead of her. I'm starting to feel like it's wrong. So I won't pursue this conversation further. In fact I really need to get off this forum. I need to go back to how things were where I'm just dealing with a woman one to one without anybody else's input i.e. real vulnerability. I appreciate the good advice I've had on here, but I think I need it to just be me from here on.

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What do you want? An explanation now? You want my life story? Here it is folks. I was in a 2-year relationship, 1 year of which I was engaged. He received a very good job offer and moved, of course I wanted him to stay but hey, every person does what they think is best for him or her. He wanted me to go with him, I fiddled with the idea but it didn't make sense when I was months away from finishing up my degree and moving there would set me back by a lot of money, credits, etc. It's been a few months now, and after about 4 months of going back and forth between each other, we both decided it was best to end it. Maybe in the future we'll be together, maybe we won't, but he sure as hell lives far far away.
Was I supposed to find the love of my life in these few months post-breakup? For all of you folks ending your arguments with a, "...and that's why you're single!"

What are you looking for here on this forum? Certainly not the 'love of your life'? Advice? How to get laid guilt free? To assist us in getting laid?

You seem very angry.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I don't want to get laid because it's not going to do me any good anyway. Works for some, doesn't work for others.


I was curious....after reading The Game, but it got redundant half way through.

Eh, aren't all women crazy.