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PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2016 5:25 am 
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Discuss the following argument:


1) A girl will only sleep with a guy if she finds him physically attractive.
2) Physical attraction is instant, so if a girl is ever going to find a guy sufficiently physically attractive to sleep with him, as soon as she encounters him she will find him physically attractive immediately.
3) If a girl finds a guy physically attractive immediately, she will look at him, i.e. sneak looks at him, stare at him, ogle him, smile at him, blush when she catches his eye, etc.

4) Therefore: if a girl doesn't look at a guy, she doesn't find him physically attractive enough to ogle him and hence will never find him physically attractive enough to sleep with him, so she will never sleep with him.
5) Therefore: if a girl doesn't look at a guy, he has no chance with her and he would be better off not wasting his time trying to chat her up when she is clearly not interested, and never will be.

6) However, if she looks at him a few times she is probably interested and he should obviously go in for the kill!
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Galist - I danced with a Russian girl a few months ago and fucked her in the sea with in 30 mins

She told me I am not her type at all but the fact that I was smooth on the dancefloor said a lot of things about me and that the fact that I was charming on top of that...

I am not hideous and I dress well but she would never make eye contact me if I was stood there in a bar doing nothing.

But that fact that I was eliciting emotions as well as I am grinding my leg up her pussy making her wet enabled me to score a super hotty whilst not being her type physically.

I encourage you to find some friends, see it for yourself and perhaps blast these jaded limiting beliefs of yours before your life becomes one big permanent self-fulfilling prophecy.

I am not saying looks don't matter, but you can attract and seduce girls that are not physically attracted to you. Otherwise known as using 'Game'.

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Galist - I danced with a Russian girl a few months ago and fucked her in the sea with in 30 mins

She told me I am not her type at all but the fact that I was smooth on the dancefloor said a lot of things about me and that the fact that I was charming on top of that...

I am not hideous and I dress well but she would never make eye contact me if I was stood there in a bar doing nothing.

But that fact that I was eliciting emotions as well as I am grinding my leg up her pussy making her wet enabled me to score a super hotty whilst not being her type physically.

I encourage you to find some friends, see it for yourself and perhaps blast these jaded limiting beliefs of yours before your life becomes one big permanent a self-fulfilling prophecy.

I am not saying looks don't matter, but you can attract and seduce girls that are not physically attracted to you. Otherwise known as using 'Game'.
I really like this answer.

The girl I'm dating right now was on the fence about me cause apparently I looked like a douche / player and she thought I was just wanting to fuck and leave. Female attraction is multifaceted and not just physical; being able to incite positive emotions and turn her on with your sexuality arguably has a bigger role than physical looks alone.


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2016 6:47 am 
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there different types of women in the world.
some have types that they stick to: narrow minded, ignorant.

and others who are open minded.

i do pretty well giving my reclusive lifestyle.

Btw, cool story bro

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Galist - I danced with a Russian girl a few months ago and fucked her in the sea with in 30 mins

She told me I am not her type at all but the fact that I was smooth on the dancefloor said a lot of things about me and that the fact that I was charming on top of that...

I am not hideous and I dress well but she would never make eye contact me if I was stood there in a bar doing nothing.

But that fact that I was eliciting emotions as well as I am grinding my leg up her pussy making her wet enabled me to score a super hotty whilst not being her type physically.

I encourage you to find some friends, see it for yourself and perhaps blast these jaded limiting beliefs of yours before your life becomes one big permanent self-fulfilling prophecy.

I am not saying looks don't matter, but you can attract and seduce girls that are not physically attracted to you. Otherwise known as using 'Game'.

Dra Gula, it might seem like i have a negative look on the game, but it doesn't really limit me from opening.

i open in real life and online every day. i kinda size up my targets though

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Galist - I danced with a Russian girl a few months ago and fucked her in the sea with in 30 mins

She told me I am not her type at all but the fact that I was smooth on the dancefloor said a lot of things about me and that the fact that I was charming on top of that...

I am not hideous and I dress well but she would never make eye contact me if I was stood there in a bar doing nothing.

But that fact that I was eliciting emotions as well as I am grinding my leg up her pussy making her wet enabled me to score a super hotty whilst not being her type physically.

I encourage you to find some friends, see it for yourself and perhaps blast these jaded limiting beliefs of yours before your life becomes one big permanent self-fulfilling prophecy.

I am not saying looks don't matter, but you can attract and seduce girls that are not physically attracted to you. Otherwise known as using 'Game'.

Dra Gula, it might seem like i have a negative look on the game, but it doesn't really limit me from opening.

i open in real life and online every day. i kinda size up my targets though
Maybe try expressing your positive views. Maybe talk about your successes in real life and online. Everything you write makes you sound like you're not that good and don't know much.

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Galist - I danced with a Russian girl a few months ago and fucked her in the sea with in 30 mins

She told me I am not her type at all but the fact that I was smooth on the dancefloor said a lot of things about me and that the fact that I was charming on top of that...

I am not hideous and I dress well but she would never make eye contact me if I was stood there in a bar doing nothing.

But that fact that I was eliciting emotions as well as I am grinding my leg up her pussy making her wet enabled me to score a super hotty whilst not being her type physically.

I encourage you to find some friends, see it for yourself and perhaps blast these jaded limiting beliefs of yours before your life becomes one big permanent self-fulfilling prophecy.

I am not saying looks don't matter, but you can attract and seduce girls that are not physically attracted to you. Otherwise known as using 'Game'.

Dra Gula, it might seem like i have a negative look on the game, but it doesn't really limit me from opening.

i open in real life and online every day. i kinda size up my targets though
Maybe try expressing your positive views. Maybe talk about your successes in real life and online. Everything you write makes you sound like you're not that good and don't know much.
guess you have a point, but i dont need help with tjat which i've seen success.

i do so your point, but im just a realist


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 18, 2016 12:47 am 
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guess you have a point, but i dont need help with tjat which i've seen success.

i do so your point, but im just a realist
I didn't say that you needed help. I'm saying how you come across. Personally, I don't see you as a realist because you have limited understanding of reality of how attraction and seduction actually works and an absolute refusal to open yourself up to new possibilities. Sort of how Bartm is...he has a negative approach to pickup and rants about Los Angeles and you can't pickup in L.A. I live in L.A. and doubt I'll ever leave for somewhere else because it's such a great place to live when it comes to pickup.

You guys limit yourself and then talk "reality". It's nonsense.

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If physical attraction was the sole thing women were attracted to, how is it often women lose attraction to a guy based on his behavior?

Most guys project themselves onto women and assume they function the same way attraction-wise.

Pumpington has pretty much nailed it down.

I've had women admit their attraction to me and I hadn't noticed them look at me even once.

Women's attraction is a volume knob, men's its an on/off switch, that is its more static.

Women will often BECOME attracted to a guy simply through conversing with him, and on the flip side lose attraction the guy they were initially attracted to based on conversation. Women's attraction as is pretty fluid BUT once the two of you are intimate it becomes more solidified, unless you start engaging in needy behavior (again, notice how behavior can attenuate attraction for women).

Always assume attraction, even if you don't get a look.


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nlp says we all see the world through personal filters.

what you say is true, but not every guy has a chance with every women.

sometimes if a woman dont like how you look, that's it: game over.

i see how women look at guys with scorn/ disdain/ disgust when some guys try to call to them. LOL, im good, i'll pass. im not letting any woman getta ego boost by stomping on mine, i respect myself.

in Brooklyn, a woman gets approached 60 times a atleast a day everyday. this does something to the psyche.

pics of one of my exes

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nlp says we all see the world through personal filters.

what you say is true, but not every guy has a chance with every women.

sometimes if a woman dont like how you look, that's it: game over.

i see how women look at guys with scorn/ disdain/ disgust when some guys try to call to them. LOL, im good, i'll pass. im not letting any woman getta ego boost by stomping on mine, i respect myself.

in Brooklyn, a woman gets approached 60 times a atleast a day everyday. this does something to the psyche.

pics of one of my exes

All good you're into black guys. Judgment free zone here homie.


The black chicks kinda 2/10 to me. I've dated several, one of which I was with for over 6 years, a complete dime piece.


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nlp says we all see the world through personal filters.
So?
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what you say is true, but not every guy has a chance with every women.
Who says that they do?
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sometimes if a woman dont like how you look, that's it: game over.
Doesn't matter in pickup. You approach the women you're attracted to. If they don't like you, it's fine because another one will. Something that you have to understand is that if you flirt with a woman while being interesting and charming, she will look for something about you to be attracted to.
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i see how women look at guys with scorn/ disdain/ disgust when some guys try to call to them. LOL, im good, i'll pass. im not letting any woman getta ego boost by stomping on mine, i respect myself.
I usually say that your opener doesn't matter, but calling out to women to get their attention is going to lower your chances. You have to approach, not call. Secondly, drop the ego...if a woman is getting approached 60 times a day she's not going to remember you tomorrow.

You should take the pic of your ex down. Kind of messed up to put her out there like that.

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nlp says we all see the world through personal filters.
So?
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what you say is true, but not every guy has a chance with every women.
Who says that they do?
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sometimes if a woman dont like how you look, that's it: game over.
Doesn't matter in pickup. You approach the women you're attracted to. If they don't like you, it's fine because another one will. Something that you have to understand is that if you flirt with a woman while being interesting and charming, she will look for something about you to be attracted to.
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i see how women look at guys with scorn/ disdain/ disgust when some guys try to call to them. LOL, im good, i'll pass. im not letting any woman getta ego boost by stomping on mine, i respect myself.
I usually say that your opener doesn't matter, but calling out to women to get their attention is going to lower your chances. You have to approach, not call. Secondly, drop the ego...if a woman is getting approached 60 times a day she's not going to remember you tomorrow.

You should take the pic of your ex down. Kind of messed up to put her out there like that.
Jack you're on a roll! Great insight.


As for Galist, that's low class throwing a photo of an ex on a PUA site, obviously to seek validation. Scarcity all around. Poor form.


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nlp says we all see the world through personal filters.

what you say is true, but not every guy has a chance with every women.

sometimes if a woman dont like how you look, that's it: game over.

i see how women look at guys with scorn/ disdain/ disgust when some guys try to call to them. LOL, im good, i'll pass. im not letting any woman getta ego boost by stomping on mine, i respect myself.

in Brooklyn, a woman gets approached 60 times a atleast a day everyday. this does something to the psyche.

pics of one of my exes

All good you're into black guys. Judgment free zone here homie.


The black chicks kinda 2/10 to me. I've dated several, one of which I was with for over 6 years, a complete dime piece.
into black guys? LoL

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nlp says we all see the world through personal filters.
So?
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what you say is true, but not every guy has a chance with every women.
Who says that they do?
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sometimes if a woman dont like how you look, that's it: game over.
Doesn't matter in pickup. You approach the women you're attracted to. If they don't like you, it's fine because another one will. Something that you have to understand is that if you flirt with a woman while being interesting and charming, she will look for something about you to be attracted to.
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i see how women look at guys with scorn/ disdain/ disgust when some guys try to call to them. LOL, im good, i'll pass. im not letting any woman getta ego boost by stomping on mine, i respect myself.
I usually say that your opener doesn't matter, but calling out to women to get their attention is going to lower your chances. You have to approach, not call. Secondly, drop the ego...if a woman is getting approached 60 times a day she's not going to remember you tomorrow.

You should take the pic of your ex down. Kind of messed up to put her out there like that.
Jack you're on a roll! Great insight.


As for Galist, that's low class throwing a photo of an ex on a PUA site, obviously to seek validation. Scarcity all around. Poor form.
all my girls have always been good looking

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