Four days in a row he asks to see you. Maybe he just doesn't want to keep being the one asking?

Dude and OP what are you talking about?
The guy:

1) obviously wants you. He asked you to meet four times in a row. Where is the time for the other girls here?? A guy who sees other girls and has other things going on in his life WILL NOT meet you 4 freaking days in a row. Wednesday you didn't reply to his message and he asked you again on Thursday.

2) Is insecure, maybe awkward and not confident enough to be straight about his intention. Tries to say it playfully joking around about his first option, asked you if you are seeing someone. No signs of having any other options.
3) He didn't contact you for 5 days to see if you will even BOTHER to give him a text to see how he is doing or make plans. You are 2 months in and 5 days of no contact? Jesus Christ, OP do you even care or want this guy, why do you expect that he always need to reach to you? The 4 consecutive days of him asking you to meet wasn't enough for you to be convinced ? A relationship is between 2 people. It works when you give and you receive.

4) He took back his 4 day trip invitation because he feels he came too strong too early while you do not reciprocate in interest on the same degree. Maybe he thought that he shifted all the power of the relationship in you.

5) Was looking at you all the time when you were with other people. Is this a behavior of someone who DOES NOT want you??

You are also playing games aren't you. Now both of you stop playing your little games and just let it be.
The thing is you might be getting unattracted to him already with him not showing being confident.
You see when you are giving more details In subsequent posts it is easier for the people here to make more justified and correct responses. A short post will have things left out, so always try to include the most important things.


And OP. You have not answered the question if you are flirting or seeing other people.

You know you can reach out too right?

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I could but if he's the one pulling back shouldn't he tell me what's what? Plus since we were out he said he wanted to have a conversation in person in a different setting. He left today for a trip but in those two days he didn't say anything. To me it just seems like he didn't really want to talk and he's just yanking my chain.

But is that insecurity enough to just let someone go? I always thought if a man really wanted something he'd go after it...

Are you putting in effort?

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They say "women want to feel desired and wanted" and "Guys want to feel appreciated".
Well this does not only apply only to women or only to men.

Why would someone continue to pursuit another person if they feel unwanted? What is your concern to reach out for him and what did you do so far to let him know your interest level is matching his interest level? What is holding you back? You are ignoring the advice and continue to judge the situation based mostly on your limited belief system that you have developed.

Unless you have missed out some other important part of the story then reconsider the last few comments. How was the relationship dynamic until the events that you described on your previous posts?
I kinda missed that out when I told you that you should stop playing games. He told you himself.
1 + 1 = 2. It look so obvious to me that he wants you but he pulled back to make you come to him. Show interest to him again and affection and watch how happy he will be around you.

And send a titty pic.

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5 days of no contact.
He's not that into you aka he's busy, he's got another side chick, etc.

I was expecting nothing less when I saw your "code-name" appearing on this thread
Yet another time you choose to jump into conclusions without reading all the previous information and posts.
Here, one more clue. Any other details that you missed?
Homework: List what actions so far did he do that showed effort from his side vs what actions you did for him

And the others didn't jump into conclusions when they've posted their theoretical assumptions as to why he didn't contact her in 5 days? I'll go ask Google next time.

And lasty, I've learned not to bother with people that don't maintain contact. Makes life easier.

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Well that's not very good advice.

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