i read this online

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These are the sheep of average males

Being in this self help world. We strive to be above average. Once you're above average in a lot of aspects (INCLUDING LOOKS) but as well as everything else: Health, confidence, general happiness, wealth then you will be having more dates with above the average women

We get it Galist, looks matter (Amongst other things)

Your posts are all based around online game. Do you even approach cold ocassionaly?

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While that does make it out to be even worse than what it is, I do agree that if you below average in looks then dont bother. However, above average with pro pics and you are set.

I primarily use online game now because of the low amount of effort needed.

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i agree to an extent.. im an average looking guy but get a reply every 2-4 messages i send. if you are below average looking though i can imagine online dating being pointless.

at the same time though if there werent so many desperate guys out there with no standards that try fucking any girl possible then it wouldnt be the same. girls would stick in their own "league" and the not so good looking guys would have more of a shot with the girls in their own "league"

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i've had alotta instant full close off the streets, but those type of closes have dwindle down since rently.

and i get attract 2's to 4's easily. 5's and better not so easily

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i've had alotta instant full close off the streets, but those type of closes have dwindle down since rently.

and i get attract 2's to 4's easily. 5's and better not so easily

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i agree with alot of what you say. looks isnt the only quality that attracts. i believe its between looks n MONEY, personality bringing up the rear.

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getting a reply is simple to me. turning them into meets are a bit harder.

they did a research on okc that suggested that women online fine 85% of the men ugly.

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i think having a car and a house puts you above average too

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So you want to attract the girls looking for a long term thing?

For someone who posts like they an authority...you sure do have a jaded view on things...

My profile displays all good quality pics:
- Main pic of me dressing really well, staged pose
- 2nd pic I drinking a glass of wine on top of a roof bar on a skyscraper in Bangkok looking pretentious and shit
- 3rd pic, I am stood in a dirty alley dressed with lot's of layers of clothes
- 4th pic I am riding a kid's toy in a shopping mall with a big exaggerated facial expression (to show some immaturity)
- 5th pic I am in between my very well dressed friends who also look like they have their shit together


Then my Instagram is also linked to my Tinder. I fill it full of snap shots of my happy life, I post pics of tasty looking food, ice cream, lobster, pics of my travels, pic of working out at the gym, videos of me riding elephants, shooting some guns, bungee jumping, funny memes etc.

My profile indirectly tells girls before they have messaged me that I am not a long term thing type, that I am a well-dressed, ambitious go-getter that can't be controlled. I have painted a story with my pics.

Having a pic of you leaning on someone else's Porche is just total cringe, not authentic and if you managed to get it past 7 days she will see the phoney that you are. When you take her back to your crummy rental apartment that no Porche owner would ever rent.

Don't you get it?

Post pics conveying that you are NOT bf material. Surely posting pics of Porches and fake Rolex's are going to attract the gold digger types that will not sleep with you till they know you are actually rich and are invested into them.

If you want to attract the gold digger type. Go ahead and copy Dan Bilzerian. If you want to settle down with a girlfriend then perhaps post pics of your supportive lifestyle. Nice house, a pic of you at your work, pics of you walking your dog etc

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i totally get what you're saying.

and no im not looking for anything long term.


i see what you mean by posting good pics. but im a simple guy, i dont party much, not really a fan of the night life, dont really like to go out fancy restaurants and spend money.

though thats probably where my problem lie: a boring lifestyle.

F it, im not changing nothing. thanks i do appreciate your help .

my instagram pipesteel, add me

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If you are introverted that is fair. Your instagram really does make you look like a loner with not many friends. I am willing to bet your Facebook profile pic is of some other creepy picture of something unrelated and confusing like a puppy or something.

You are into your weights, which is good and you're pretty good looking so I can imagine you do okay with online dating by the fundamentals alone.

But let's say you were proactive with your lifestyle and were no longer boring? Let's say you had a cool pic of you dangling off the empire state building edge in your home of New York?

Then perhaps a pic of you and your best friend's where you are looking like the centre of attention?

Then perhaps a pic of you holding a pic of your little niece to convey that you are not some loner guy (Just snatch a random kid off the street if you don't have a niece)

What about a pic of you looking smart in a suit to show that you're actually not just some guy that messages girls on facebook saying: 'Hey bbe, I like ya sass'

You can really still keep things simple but if your Tinder is anything like your Instagram then i can imagine it's a lot of plane gym selfies not conveying much. Right now your looks are the only thing you got going for you. Just a little more effort with your other stuff will no doubt introduce you to twice as many girls, but also much better quality ones

This is exactly what some guys here have been harping on about with 'Having your shit together' - You have so much potential but I think for you. If you lost your looks you would have no choice BUT to get your shit together.

I have worked on my looks for a long time and now finally look above average. My life is improved significantly too and my results show for it. I am sleeping with about 5 new (attractive girls) a week on average. Granted I've moved to a holiday destination but I worked on my life in such a way to obtain these perks. I am sure I would do great in NY so you're actually quite lucky

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https://www.okcupid.com/profile my okc

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Never worry bout what I do
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Every night, doin' you right

Quality photos(as long you're well groomed, don't look like you forum icon picture, and are displaying representation character[no selfies]), a quality written profile, and a catchy opener should fare you pretty well.

Sure the better looking guys will get more responses, but 2 out of 400 is completely ridiculous. I can get more than that with a blank profile and no pictures on okcupid with the right opener. It seems to me that you're looking for reasons you're not having much success instead of putting the focus on how you can improve your results.

And what are you doing sleeping with 2's 3's a 4's?

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