Not just any job, a professional job I have preferences and standards, ehem.

Might I suggest to have some character traits...Not sure that could be important for a long term thing partner...I think I know why you're single, and the source to your passive aggression for this forum.

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Well, then, I think I know why YOU'RE single.

How you're on a forum doesn't necessarily translate to how you're in real life. Otherwise, I'd assume a lot of things about you but you wouldn't want me to now would you.

Ask me anything, sugar tits. I choose to be single because it makes me more, happy having the variety and freedom.

You want to find the perfect man, if that is what YOU want then you should do whatever makes you happy. But it's ludicrous to base a long term partner on 'outside' things. Just sayin... Surely you can agree with that...?

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I'm not going to because I really don't care if you're single or not, and why you're single if so.

Secondly, yes, it's ludicrous. But, I'm also not going to go for the 35-year-old working at Denny's. Maybe men are more so okay with it.
People marry within their own socioeconomic class, ever heard that?

If you were dating a guy who was a heart surgeon and he was really funny and charming

Then you're also dating another heart surgeon and he was really dull and serious. I am willing to bet you would choose former...

So why not base some criteria around character traits and don't settle for less than you feel like you deserve.

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Jeez no one said that economic class is not important. But your friend is insecure... He's insecure that a woman would leave him for someone with a better position.

Why is that so difficult. Someone can be a successful doctor and he insecure about their height weight looks dick size money etc. If you'd rather an insecure doctor over a not insecure guy at Denny's fine... But hopefully you'd be honest enough to admit you're settling and that you'd prefer a doctor with more confidence in hinself.

Settling this, settling that. Please, guys, make sure you're not settling! And make sure your date's not settling either!

Yes, I'd rather an insecure physician over a secure dude from Denny's if it's a long-term thing.

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Yep, that's what happens when a woman (or a man!) can't provide for herself financially.

Otherwise, it's called looking for an equal partnership.

Maybe you should learn from them a thing or two

I'm curious.. Do you value anything about yourself or your dudes besides their income? Cause most things you say about yourself and men seem to revolve around that. I mean I get financial security is important but it sounds like once a guy has a good job and is willing to be do things for you that's all that matters. He could have a dick problem as you said.. Be insecure... You'll marry this guy. Which is fine but I think here most guys don't just want to have a career and win a girl.

None of your words ever make it look like you are looking for an equal partnership. Your first thread is about a guy needing to spend money on you.

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There is a difference between what you do in dating vs what you do at your job, daily life, etc.

You talk about men taking the lead, being the alpha male, the aggressor, confident, charismatic, high achieving, all that good stuff. But when it comes to paying for a first date, oh no, hold your horses there. Fine, let it be that way. But then, expect the woman to take the lead, get your number, invite you out for a drink. Let her make the first move, be it online or in person. You're looking for an equal partnership, right?

It's not as much as spending money, as it is about him impressing her. Getting ready for 2 hours, hair, makeup, nails, dresses, heels....Yeah, that's definitely not trying to impress somebody. That's a regular walk around the block taking out the trash.


Whatever man, if it makes you happy, you win.