Is it socially acceptable to interrupt a girl who is reading in a coffee shop? What do you say?

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Dude, picking up girls is not "socially acceptable" to being with. Just go for it.

That reminds me of an opener a French guy told me about: "Ah, you're reading Nietzsche... I read that one... that's the one where the robots win at the end, right? Honestly it's not one of his best, the story makes no sense..."

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"What are you reading ? "

Its not what you say its how you say it. if you approach with that creepy insecure vibe it doesn't matter if you have an amazing book opener. They'll roll their eyes and shoe you away. If you approach with a confident cool vibe, you could have a basic or average opener and the odds are high that'll you'll be responded to favorably.

Now, this forum is not about doing what is "Socially acceptable"..The very nature of approaching random women on the street is not social acceptable.

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Cool, i'll give it a shot!

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It's never fun when a woman takes her shoe off as a means to push you away.

Agreed, it's about VIBE more than anything. Doesn't matter so much what you say, it can be an incomprehensible grunt even so long as its coming out of a confident energy.

"Damn girl, are you a Snickers bar because you're so sweet and satisfying and surprisingly hard and hold on, are those nuts?"

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You can say something as simple as "What you're reading?" and carry it from there. The key is really
to say it in a casual tone, where you're communicating, "I'm bored and don't have much to do"

You want to imitate the style of Jane from Mentalist. Notice how nonchalant he is, he does everything
with "I'm doing it because I'm doing it"

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One of my favourite ways to start a conversation with a girl that's reading a book, is to
first notice the title of the book. Maybe I know the book, maybe I know the author, or maybe I know the janra.

Then I say this:

"That's an awesome book...are you already at the part when they get married?"

Of course you don't know what you're talking about, but it's a nice pattern interrupt.

In other words, you mess with her to get her attention, and to make her snap out of her book mode.

Then you say, "I'm just messing with you, you seemed to into it so I needed to say something to save your
life..."

And then you keep the conversation going.

Try it out, see how it goes.

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You can ask her what she is reading or if the book she's reading is interesting. I know, these openers doesn't sound spectacular, but in my opinion it doesn't have to be. It's far better than saying nothing.

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One time, I was in a small coffee shop studying. There was this guy across from me. After a while, I noticed he was trying to make eye contact with me. He too was 'reading'. Anyway, he was there looking my way for a good one hour. Whenever I'd take my eyes off my material, there he was, looking straight at me.

Well, he left after about an hour. Not sure what he was trying to achieve by staring at me long and hard, but not making any moves. I guess he expected me to initiate.

Anyway, don't be like that guy.

I think there's a big part missing here and an opportunity to up your success rate.

How you read your environment, gives you the answers you're looking for. All of this depends on your target(HB) that you want to approach. Look at the book she's reading, the style of her clothes, how she looks, who is she with, what do her friends look like, where are you(the location), all of these things help you understand and read your target so you can calibrate accordingly.

This will give you the answers on what to say or how to approach, it doesn't even have to be about the book, this is a rigid way of thinking. It's not about whats going on it's about what you make happen. Using your environment, Reading and Understanding your target, These are tools and weapons that you can manipulate to help you get the job done, and win the battle.

This is some quality advice. Everything around you is an asset which can be used for your own benefit.