Well guys im lookin for a lil hlp at the same time need to get my thoughts on paper so to speak. Ill be headin home for spring break for about a week. A very close friend of mines sister got engaged last X-mas break she is in the HB 9 range, 21, personality isnt great but i havnt had a chance to get to know her. I have since found out she is no longer engaged and not with the guy any more. She is currently with a new guy in his 30's !?! she has a thing for older guys.

Well before she got engaged she gave IOI's (didnt know back than) and my friend (her brother) and other close friends noticed that she may be interested. Never acted on it but i would always joke wit her (Negs) and it got to points where she would light kino me by pushing my arm, leg etc. Now that i hav this PUA knowledge i realize she is pretty good at bein a girl (if that makes sense) her body language, actions, words all seem to be done for reason unknown to an AFC.

Well what im tryin to get at is ill be goin home for a week soon and ill probably see her and if not than i will for sure see her soon. How should i approach her and how should i act? I wont need to open, when i see her should i give her a hug? Im guessing i should be building comfort wit her and showing higher value? What should i do if she tries to give kino by pushin, punching etc? I dont know if that is bad kino are if there is such a thing. What should i do if her BF is around, sorta Amog him or befriend him?

Lol just to be clear her bro has said he has no problem with me goin out wit her. I hav known him for about 6-7 years and if he isnt cool wit it he will let me know or if he starts acting funny i hav no problem talkin to him about it.

Any hlp will be awsome guys, comments and questions are awsome too. Thx in advance for the hlp guys.

Whether you are just friends or not, kino is a good thing, especially since she's already been giving it to you. Yes, give her kino. As far as building the attraction, I'm not sure if I'm understanding you right. Have you known the guy she's currently seeing for 6 or 7 years? If so, that's dangerous territory, because you've got the code to think of. If I'm misunderstanding you, then the normal things that build attraction apply. The attraction switches . . .
1. Leader of men
2. Preselected by women
3. Willing to Emote
4. Protector of Loved Ones
And willing to take risks, plus adding the kino, the teasing, the push/pull factors all build attraction. And, if she's "open" then those are the things that you need to do.

That's awesome. If you've been the older brother's friend for so long then that's about as good social proof as you can get lol.

As far as kino and stuff I think it will come naturally, go with the flow, you'll be alright once you're around each other after all you aren't strangers and you are her brother's close friend.

I think your only obstacle here is the boyfriend. What does her brother think of him?

There really isn't many things that I would consider "bad kino". Maybe being kicked in the balls, but even a slap can be turned around if you go about it the right way. Punches and pushes are a great sign, cause she's being playful with you and getting your attention. Push her back, raise your dukes and give her a playful scowl back.

As for when you first see her, make sure you do give her a hug, especially if she's sitting down or something, you point at her and then give a "come here" with a big smile, then you give her a big hug. It's showing dominance on your part, compliance on hers and then rewarding her for it. Starts the whole thing off on the right note, by establishing that kino is gonna be common and fun.

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Yea Tripp I meant to say i hav known her bro my good friend for 6-7 years. The 30 something year old i know nothing about just found out about her situation last night i should probably find out about him. How should i deal wit the BF if i should at all? Thx for the hlp so far guys.

Make friends with him like you would any other obstacle. That is if he's around you at all.

I generally act as if the bf isn't a concern of mine and if they're interested, then they're gonna show it and then you only have to deal with the bf if she brings him up, otherwise, if she can forget about him, so can you.

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I think that any kino initiated from you target is an IOI. I agree there is no need to open. I think the best thing to do at this point is go to A2. Neg her slightly just a few times, just to play a little hard to get. Of course DHV yourself as you would normally do. Then move forward to A3 and comfort.

If her boyfriend is around I would just befriend the guy. At the same time find things about him to use to your advantage with her.

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Thx guys had some time to think about and now reading ur guys posts i know i got this. Ill post some what of a FR when i go through wit things.