Hi PUAs, this is my first thread.

I have PUA knowledge and I know that being friends with a girl takes you nowhere. But that doesn´t mean you cannot have any female friends right?

I decided to be friends with this girl, period. But after being close I started to like her, she seduced me for MONTHS because she knew I wasn´t interested at all. And she succeeded ! We made out all night after some drinks, she invited me to stay over but we were too drunk and we didn´t have sex.

This girl is crazy, she has serious daddy issues, she is a slut and has low self esteem despite she is gorgeous (that´s why I wasn´t interested in the first place).

She said she wasn´t interested in me, she was using me to get back to another asshole, she told me she didn´t want to ruin our friendship and that I was going to get hurt because she is such a player bitch. (My ego was destroyed, I am the PUA, right?)

Is this a friendzone case ? Bcz you don´t get physical with friends..

But now I cant get her outta my mind, I need to come up with a game to win her over.. I know, I know, there are many girls in the world, but not in MY WORLD, now there is only one.

Love u guys,

Lol, so you friendzone a chick and she flips the script and now you're the one complaining. Hm, serves your right. Either you keep escalating and ignore her shit or you let it go because it seems she is winning the frame. She is dictating your relationship and it seems that you are walking right into it.

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Lol - I like her

Have you ever been in a friend zone and you have gave up on her? Then suddenly she sees you meet a girl with potential and you become more distant from the friendship.

The friendship girl then gives you a confusing compliment and perhaps even kisses you. You kiss her back and then you lose interest in this new girl with potential

This chick then knows she has you back on her lap again like the good orbiter you are. Welcome back to friendzone minus a potential romance who finds a new boyfriend.

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yeah Yeah, I get it...

The problem is that I took her for granted, I though she was "into me" I didn´t realize she was playing me.

What I feel about her is a mix between love, hate and ego-hurt. That is the worst kind of feeling.

I do all right with women lately, I improved my "game" after I got played, but I still can´t get this chick out of my mind. She told me to fuck off, she is not even interested in my friendship anymore after I started to seduce her again.

I need to come up with a genius plan, this is my Everest, it is the hardest situation I have ever been in.

I need an advice that goes against all odds and rules..

Thanks.

Well, there you go, why even entertain thinking about it any longer?

Pick up isn't about seducing girls that hate you. Move on to the other billion girls that will happily tell you not to fuck off
You didn't seduce her. You had a sloppy makeout...Sorry bro, kisses are overrated and actually not that much of a progression to sex. What I mean by that that there is a select amount of girls that will kiss guys in clubs but have ZERO intention in going home with them
You are looking for a magic line or technique. They don't exist, especially girls that are not interested in you. You have 'Oneitus' and the best way to cure it is to have sex with 10 other women.

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Thanks for your reply, dude. I am aware of all of this.

Can I ask, what is wrong with oneitus? I already met other girls and I still have this horrible "disease" maybe is not that bad, I mean, why not spending time, energy, PUA knowledge on a girl you are indeed crazy about ?

I won´t be obsessed forever, but what´s wrong with a final fight, before I say good bye?

Fractionation comes to my mind.

Has any one been in a similar situation ?

I have oneitus for Nicole Sherzinger, let me know if you find that magic line

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LOL. I´ll let you know, thanks bro.

Because it comes from a scarcity mindset.

Whether or not you meet other girls makes no difference because you've elevated this "crazy, daddy issues slut" to such a high status, other girls simply cannot live up to your ideal of this girl.

Thus, oneitis essentially devalues other girls = scarcity and chasing an uninterested girl = neediness. Just a horrible mindset to be in when you're putting yourself in that frame.

You'll never get with her.

She was deceptive and used you, hence has little to no regard for you (you really want someone like this around?).

There's no magic bullet, as stated already though I feel it needs reminding.

Chalk it up as an experience to learn from and move on.

I guess it's true... Not all heroes wear capes.

Why are you chasing after a girl who's fucked up in the head? Why do guys do this?

There are girls out there who have a great self esteem and will be your dirty little slut... Not a dirty little slut that you wonder who she's fucking while you're at home waiting for her to text you.

There are girls out there who have great relationships with their father and phenomenal male role models in their life.

You can DATE those girls.

Sure... Fuck the skanky party sluts. But leave those girls to get married to some loser accountant when she's 35. Tell him she's slept with "maybe 6" guys.

Don't you wife them up. Be smarter than your average Gary. Date a girl who's actually girlfriend material. Don't get stuck in the game of trying to turn a hoe into a house wife. #DontSaveHer

You're crazy about a prime example of daddy issues slut that's fucked up in the head and already manipulated your sorry ass in the past?

Jeez, I wonder what's wrong with that..

Your standards are wrong. The fact that you're letting your dick do the thinking is wrong. The fact that you don't even like this girl, just the ideal you've created in your mind about her is wrong.

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Thank you all for your replies.

I wasn´t thinking with my dick, my dick is not that stupid

I needed to read all of this, I will never get her, true that. Just like some people have sexual fantasies, some of us have weird lame fantasies of finding a broken girl who isn't sure about us and work our asses off to fix her and make her our princess.

No man can fix a broken girl, just like no one can fix a cut flower. Sometimes we are irresistible attracted to people who will bring us the right troubles for our personal evolution.

Let go..

No, we are not "sometimes attracted to broken people".

We are attracted to broken people when they are our only option.

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I think I must be really desperate to be attracted to a crack whore or an alcoholic at the end of the day. I have too many other things to do than to fix things. If you can to fix up girls look into being a therapist.

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