Hi

I had a date with a girl on Saturday and everything worked out pretty well.
We had dinner than we went to see a movie and after that we went to a lounge.

When we went to the restaurant we had a good time, laughing and talking than I decided to take her to a movie theater .
But that was a mistake, she was all into watching the movie, I was not able to get anything going between us.
I already took dates to see a movie and it always worked out pretty good, that we would start making out but it didn’t work with her.
So after the movie we went to the lounge where she woke up again haha but somehow I guess I killed the energy between us.
I would say that we had a good time at the lounge, but nothing happened there as well I had the feeling that she didn’t want to start anything.

Well so I m a bit confused, because everything worked out pretty well, but I m just not sure if she liked the night out with me.

The question I have is should I be the one who text or call her and be like hope you had a good time…I personally think that she is the one who should get back to me, because I took her on a date picked her up paid
everything the whole night, so would you agree that if she liked me she would get back to me(she could text and be like thanks for Saturday)????.
Or should I be the one getting back to her ? I don’t want to look like an Idiot so I m not sure what I should do.

This date was just a bit weird because I m just not sure if she liked me,the crazy part is that the first hour at the restaurant I was feeling how much she was into me.But after the movie the energy was just gone from her side.

So what do you guys think,should I write her a text or should I just wait and if I don't hear from her just move on ???

Ok, so . . .
YOU pick her up . . .
YOU take her out . . .
YOU pay for everything . . .
YOU take her to dinner . . .
YOU take her to a movie . . .
YOU take her to a lounge . . .
. . . . . . . . she's getting bored cause you're like the last 100 guys that hit on her, but at least she got a free dinner and movie out of you . . . just like she got out of the last 100 guys . . .

Getting the picture?

And FYI, a movie is SOOO not a good idea for the first night. Have you read or studied ANYTHING?

BTW, welcome to the forum dukevince.

^ Basically

That's the problem with going to the movies, hard to be social especially if the film is that engrossing. Definitely not on a first date. What movie was it?

If she hasn't text you a thanks and whatnot yet, and you feel the date was a little anticlimatic and feel that she though the same, I'd wait a while before actually getting back in touch..

Thanks guys for your answer !

I was stupied to go to a movie with her on a first date,you totally right.

Why did I go?
Because on other date's it worked out.
But I agree it was so stupied (specially because she was hot), so know I have to think if I will text her or not.
If I do text her in a few days do you think I will look like a loser ?

And what should I say? I know its fucked up maybe I shouldn't do anything but that might look bad as well right ?

Best
Duke

You can text her back in a couple of days w/o looking like a loser. It all depends on HOW you text her, as in what you say.

You also didn't tell us if you've studied anything at all yet, at this point.

"It was cool hanging out with you, but next time, try to be as exciting as I am " would be something good to say in a text.

Something mehow reccomends for the phone game and texting.
If you text her... say this
you: hey shrimp, its your shrimp daddy.
Thats it!
If you call and get voicemail.......
you: hey (her name) its (your name) Ill ttyl. Then hang up thats all. That way you dont come across as needy. Again thats not really my advice its mehows advice look him up on youtube.

you probly shoudlnt have paid for everything, and you shoulda took her somewhere more memorable. somewhere she hasnt been takin 1,000 times before by AFC's. Youre above an AFC, show her that...and idk what youve read on PUA but if you havent I sugest Magic Bullets and The Mystery Method: The Venusian Arts