Okay, obvious puns about the thread title and dick size aside, after having a great drinks date with a girl I met off Tinder, we go back to my apartment and screw, there's like an awkwardness afterwards as we're cuddling. I tell her she can stay over if she wants, but I have to be somewhere at 10am. She tells me she doesn't want to be rude, but she'd rather head back to her apartment. So I walk her back to the subway and kiss her goodnight, a good kiss btw.

The next time I ask her out (a few days later), she tells me quite nicely that she's not feeling it between us but had great conversation with me and would like to be friends.

She seemed pretty nice and open with me, so I decided to ask for more details. She specifically said that during sex, she just didn't feel a connection with me. I asked if I wasn't rough enough, or didn't last long enough etc, and she reiterated that I didn't do anything incorrectly, she just didn't feel a connection. She told me she felt awkward afterward because she knew there wasn't a connection.

Details: Sex lasted probably 6 or 7 minutes. I had a bit of whiskey dick at first, but she fixed that after a few seconds of work. We did some foreplay before hand for a few minutes. She did not orgasm, but she seemed to be enjoying the ride (perhaps I was wrong) and also may have been close.

What would you guys do to make a gal feel a connection? Can anyone offer any tips or interpretations? I think that's her way of saying "You're bad in bed and I can't help you" lol. I probably should have eaten the box lol.

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