I have a burning issue at the moment that i cannot figure out, but i know what the problem is. The girl is nice, well mannered and very smart and i am friends with her through a friend of mine but i know that she is just not attracted to me.

how can i change from being just a friend of a friend to being with her. i have been with her once before the christmas but it has just been awarkward between us ever since. what should i do to make har attracted to me?? how can i ask her out with out it being too weird?

if you could get bck to me i would be very happy,


bill

What do you mean by "been with her before xmas"? Have you had sex with her, or do you just mean you hung out?

_________________
"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Thats a good point, what do you mean you've been with her before. If you haven't had sex with her, its sargin as normal. If you have, you'll have to take a new approach or find someone else. She is a friend of a friend which means your friend can accompilshment intro you to her and your in, no opener required. if you have slept with her before, my best recommendation is try some NLP on her. Throw in a few weasel phrases and run some routines to rebuild that attraction. unless you were with her a few months ago and royally made an ass outta yourself and FUBARed your chances, then, find another fish, there are billions out there.

B_Sweet