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PostPosted: Thu Feb 21, 2008 3:30 pm 
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Bola (body Language)
Here is a list I have compiled for different sources regarding female bola
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Signals she is interested:

Her lips:
• Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face.
• Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her front teeth.
• She wets her lips, some women use only a single-lip lick, wetting the upper or lower lip, while
others run the tongue around the entire lip area.
• She puts her fingernail between her teeth.
• She protrudes her lips and thrust her breasts forward.
Her eyes:
• She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated.
• She raises both eyebrows exaggeratedly for a couple of seconds, this is often combined with a
smile and some eye contact.
• She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance.
• While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.
• Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile indicates interest in you.
Her hair:
• She pushes her fingers through her hair. This can be one hand movement or more of a stroking
motion.
• She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you.
• She is throwing her hair back off her shoulders.
Her clothing:
• If she is wearing clothes that show her nipples underneath and you notice they are getting perky
and erect.
• The hem goes up to expose a little more leg.
• She is fixing, patting or smoothing her outfit to make herself look better.
While she is seated:
• She moves in time to the music, with her eyes on you.
• She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.
• She is sitting with her legs open.
• She sits with her legs crossed in a manner to reveal her thigh.
• Her legs are rubbing against each other.
• Her legs are rubbing against the leg of the table.
• Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back and forth towards you.
Her hands:
• She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.
• While talking to you, she rests an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out her other
hand, palm up.
• She rubs her wrists up and down.
• She sits with one hand touching one of her breasts.
• She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she's thinking about you and her
relating in some way:)
• She is fondling keys, sliding hands up and down a glass, playing with toys or other things on the
table.
• She plays with her jewellery, especially with stroking and pulling motions.
• She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you (in case you already haven't
started kino yourself, dumbass:).
• She is pretending to look at her watch as you pass her.
Her voice
• She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.
• She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours.
• She laughs in unison with you.
• In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on you.
Micellaneous:
• She mirrors your body language and body positions.
• Her skin tone becomes red while being around you.
• She blows smoke straight out from between her lips and toward you.
• She leans over and speaks into her friend's ear, just like in junior high school.
• She is standing with her head cocked slightly at an angle, one foot behind the other, hips slightly
thrust forward.
• At a party - every once in a while she seems to appear out of nowhere in your vicinity and if you
move to another spot, soon she appears out of nowhere again, you catch her glancing in your
general direction (actually, glancing at YOU dummy!:), she bumps into you… accidentally,
touches you… accidentally etc:)

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Nice post dawg - i would recommend all of you to read a book about bola someday.
It's teaching you a lot of thing, and it's very funny Very Happy

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I'M INTERESTED -DON'T BOTHER ME
Sidelong glance(s) -Never sneaks a peek
Looks at you a few times -Fleeting eye contact
Holds your gaze briefly -Looks away quickly
Downcast eyes, then away -Looks away, eyes level
Posture changes to alert - Posture unchanged
Preens, adjusts hair, attire -Does no preening
Turns body toward you - Turns body away
Tilts head - Head remains vertical
Narrows eyes slightly -Eyes remain normal
Smiles - Neutral, polite face
Matches your posture -Posture unchanged
Eyes sparkle -Normal or dull eyes
Licks her lips - Keeps mouth closed
Thrusts breasts -Sags to de-emphasize breasts

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BOLA is the shorthand for Body Language? It sounds like Ebola!


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Great Bola gestures to look out for when you are first talking to her. These signals should be noted within the first 10 mins or less.

KEEP TALKING- MOVE ON
Alert, energetic- Tense, restless
Pupils dilated -Normal or small pupils
Gradually opens posture- Posture remains closed
Lowers drink- Keeps drink high
Touches self gently- Grips or pinches self
Caresses objects- Squeezes, taps objects
Crosses and uncrosses legs- Legs remain crossed
Flashes of palm- Back of hand gestures
Crossed legs steady- Swings crossed legs
Dangles shoe on toe- Keeps shoe on
Hands never touch face- Touches face
Touches you any reason- Never touches you
Feet firmly on floor- Feet on edges or toes
Loosens anything- Tightens anything
Leans forward- Leans away
Steady hands, feet-Tapping, drumming

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Common signs of interest from HB's

• She compliments you on virtually anything. Women are used to receiving compliments, not giving them. So if she points out a positive characteristic, you’ve impressed her.
• She’s disagreeing but laughing. Flirtatious sarcasm, as in “Yeah, right, like I believe that!” means she’s into you. If she weren’t, she’d simply “Uh-huh” you into oblivion.
• She keeps asking you to repeat yourself. She’s not allowing the blasting music to come between the two of you. A suggestion of a quieter corner to talk in will be well received.
• She laughs at your lame junior high school–level jokes. She’s obviously lust drunk. Or maybe just drunk.
• She touches you anywhere. Touch her back in the equivalent place, and let her up the ante, just in case her touch was an accidental slip of the hand.
• She stays put. If you run to drain the monster and she’s still where you left her when you return,
you’re doing something right. Likewise if she comes back to you after she powders her nose.
• She doesn’t flinch. If you reach across her to grab a drink or an ashtray and she doesn’t pull
back, she’s feeling physically comfortable with you. Don’t blow it, pal.
• She says, “Hey, where ya goin’?” as you leave the bar. She’s angling for an invite. Even if she ultimately says no (she may not feel safe going off with you or may not want to ditch her friends) it’s a sign she’s game for a future hookup.

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wow,
very nice, 100 times thanks, I think this is very helpful
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 5:24 pm 
Good job capn.

Nice list, well done.


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Agreed, very well done.

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