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Hey Guys,
Been talking to this chick, convo was getting dead so i asked her what brings her to Tinder. I asked her that cuz i wanted to the intentions straight from the get go (with her i am only looking to f close if anything). So she says "Tryin to find a nice guy...u?'
I wanna escalate sexually and let my intentions be known. Any suggestions for my response to her would be appreciated as always!
Tell her what you're looking for:
Guys have this habit of assuming all girls want relationships. When I tell girls my intentions BEFORE the meet, they appreciate my honesty and the ones that are cool with it, they tend last a long time (drama free) and we still remain friends, when it ends.
Preset-ing your intentions does scare a number of girls away. But they would only be the girls that do the
5 dates and I might get lucky kind of dynamic which I'm not prepared to do anyway. Some girls get angry at me that 'You're just after a shag'
BUT....If a girl STIL meets up with me, I tend to get same night sex because the frame has been set to casual.
All I am doing is filtering for the girls that want to hook up. Pretty simple. But I am willing to risk it which hardly anybody wants to do.