Petite and blonde doesn't necessarily makes you hot also joining a pua forum doesn't necessarily mean you have pua skills or have any idea about game.

You can assume whatever you want about me. The truth is that you can't help me on how to steal this guy from his gf. You know nothing about how girls game a guy. Even the ones who don't do anything and expect a guy to approach them have a game.

So why don't you stick to what you can help which is to just say an opinion on what possibly could be on his mind? There is a possibility you might be right there is also a possibility you might be wrong. Your opinion is just advisory according to what you read

Also don't take out on me any frustration you have with women of your life!
If you have spare switches for emotions to lend everyone here it would be handy. Most of us maybe could do with some :p

Spot on. ☺

Lol?
Can you please tell how did you conclude on that?
I don't know you in real life.

You've stated that you date down. Not only down, but you date unattractive guys where people feel sorry for you. The fact that you look at them as being unattractive but would still date them is not normal.

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When i was younger i went through a phase of insecurity. I had very low confidence because my first relationship and my failure in uni.
I worked on my weaknesses though. I graduated with good marks, i have a good degree and a good job and i worked on my inner game to feel comfortable under my skin.
I m different now and i see dating in a different way.

If you feel comfortable in your own skin, why is walking away NOT an option? Look Maria, you're being a terrible person. You actually want to get a guy to cheat on his gf for your own validation for finally sleeping with a 9. Not that this guy wants to cheat and its not your fault, you've actually crossed the line to trying to figure out how to MANIPULATE the situation to get him to cheat. Thats a really shitty disgusting thing to do to another woman. But, thats your choice, but dont act like you're anything but an insecure, selfish woman. Because a secure, good woman wouldnt do this or think like this.

I repeat, you have crossed the moral line of being with a cheater and you're actively trying to manipulate someone into cheating.

If his gf is the same way as you are, why is he not choosing you? He ignores both of you. You're both watching his actions intensely. Only difference is he;s fucking her. Hence she MUST be hotter. You act like stating his gf is a average clinger, doesnt now make YOU look like you must look highly unattractive if he's still with her and hasnt even kissed you. The guy who is with an average, annoying chick isnt taking the oppurtunity to bang you? Thats looks bad on you and his level of attraction for you.

As I said, you're being shitty. That being said, I told you to just tell him come to your place and make it easy for him to fuck you. You're not worth effort to him, so make it as easy and simple as possible. But dont pat yourself on the back that youve grown...all you've done is gotten a job, a degree and become a ruthless chick who will chase a guy for months for a lay, despite him shitting on you at every turn.

My money's on this chick being Borderline.

whats normal for a woman?

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Nice deflection on not answering the data question. You answer my question, then I'll answer yours.

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ohh i mean just her story. to me its data:info

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You're in a pua forum where phrases such as "bf destroyer" and methods on how to get the woman of your dreams from someone else is part of the acceptable. If i wanted to get moral answers that's the last place i would ask for advice.
It's funny how you all accept a guy doing something as ok and if a woman does it's all immoral.
If he was such a little angel and he wouldn't have accepted when I asked him out for a drink! He accepted it and he took a step back when the gf joined the gym.
What a loyal bf!
A good guy with morals wouldn't have to be afraid about ANYTHING. Good and loyal bfs don't lead on other girls. Same as good loyal gfs shouldn't lead on other guys when they are in a relationship with someone.

Your answer on how he would leave the gf shows you know nothing about how a cheater's mind works.
It doesn't matter sometimes if you want someone. If you are in a relationship with someone else and you live with them or if you are for a long time with them then it is hard to let go. If a relationship is more than a year then you cling on the familiar.

You can now try to attack how hot i am etc. Alright?

Lol? Borderline?
Well let me put on some lipstick and wait to be approached.
I'll look more normal

First off, you have never seen a post from me where Ive condoned someone cheating. I have several posts admonishing MEN for doing what you are trying to do. Several posts telling guys to move on in a situation like this.
Several posts where Ive defended YOU and other females opinions when other posters said women shouldnt give advice here.
Second, and this is really disappointing...You are the 2nd woman here in 24 hrs who has fallen back on this "the forum is dispicable" excuse when called out on bs. You are doing a NASTY thing by insulting the forum, when you know that bf destroyer isnt something recommended by the experienced posters here. You're being NASTY when you act like men arent given the same advice as you are to move on and using your gender as a way to excuse your disgusting behavior. You're the kind of chick who cries sexism when someone tells you the truth. So save your bs cause it just looks bad.
Ive been with cheaters and was a terrible peice of shit for that. Im not going to lie to myself.

Even then, Ive given you advice on how to get what you want, morals aside.

I never said this guy was loyal. So if you think this guy is not a loyal bf, fine, i'll give you that. Hence I told you to get him to fuck you, MAKE IT EASY. Why is that so fucking hard to understand? Give the guy an open invitation to come fuck. He's not putting in any effort, so dont expect drinks or dinner. Now, whether you're a 10 or a 2 doesnt matter. HE'S NOT PUTTING IN EFFORT. So if you want him to cheat, make it easy.

I cant debate how fucking hot you are. But as I said, you're not hot enough for him to put in effort. Thats a fact by his actions. So maybe you're a 10, and his gf a 6, but to him, you're not hot enough to go out for drinks. You keep changing the game when called out. One minute he's a loyal bf, next he isnt. I never said he was. I dont know what issue you have with the truth; if a guy isnt putting in effort to fuck you (ie drinks) then either move on, or stop requiring effort to fuck you. JUST INVITE HIM OVER FOR SEX. Maybe your ego cant handle doing that and feeling cheap, but this guy is treating you like your shit. So fuck him. But dont fool yourself that you're this good person and not insecure. And you're a fucking liar, because you are well aware that if you were a guy here, the advice would be the same: move the fuck on. When I was fucking people's wives and gfs, I admitted to myself I'm a piece of shit and seeking validation through sex. I have no idea why you insist on lying to yourself on not only that, but the rest of this sick, desperate situation.

'Lipstick on a pig', indeed...

Neo, give it up. This person's a waste of both time and energy. I'd say he/she is trolling but given the depth of detail and consistent story line I am more inclined to believe this is a person with some very disturbed thinking. You're speaking from a pure rationale POV, it won't make any iota of change. Your energy and attention would be better channeled to those who legitimately want change and hold a more open mind. Or continue voyuering this person's threads and getting drawn in.

As far as Im concerned any posts created by this user will be considered 'locked'.

You weren't much of a help anyway.