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PostPosted: Tue Jun 28, 2016 6:57 pm 
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Off topic but are you from the 'D' or just a Blain Hardy fan?
Was born in the big D and lived there during my childhood years and grew up a Tigers fan have since moved, still in the Midwest and still a tigers fan. Not sure about the lions though haha. 65 is actually an old high school number of mine but I am a Blain Hardy fan too.
I spent a good deal of my childhood growing up in Wayne & Oakland County.

The Lions? Yeah a group of guys that get paid millions of dollars to get together and watch the Super Bowl on Tv every year.

Good luck with your dilemma you are getting good advice.

Hope she's worth it.

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It's been a week and a half since we last had sex, I didnt wrap it up that time and the next morning she made the comment I should start wearing condoms as she's not on birth control. Had I had one last Saturday I know I could have closed.
That's a long time to go without sex in a new relationship.

Also, if she says you are "dating" that implies exclusivity, IMHO. And if you're exclusive, why the condoms?


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Thinking more about this, if she has not interest in her ex and was at the dance with me as my date, why would she give him the time of day when he isolates her?
That's a good question. I find that disrespectful.
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Texted her a bit yesterday, kept things brief as she was working/exhausted after work. Put a situation in her head with me in it that will likely happen this weekend. She said it sounded perfect and was excited for this weekend.
That's positive. When you are together (after sex, NOT before) tell her you got asked out on a date and if she has an opinion on it. That will clear things up right away.

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Also, if she says you are "dating" that implies exclusivity, IMHO. And if you're exclusive, why the condoms?
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Also, if she says you are "dating" that implies exclusivity, IMHO. And if you're exclusive, why the condoms?
Wow...just wow.

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"Dating" in these parts means "relationship", very distinct from "going on dates".

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"Dating" in these parts means "relationship", very distinct from "going on dates".
Hahaha. I mean, what about pregnancy or stds?
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Yeah she probably wouldn't want to get knocked up, I'm not ready for that shit haha
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If you've been dating a while, you've every right to have that conversation with her. Not about ASKING if she'll be your girlfriend, rather what her intentions are.

If she says to continue dating you then maybe that's time to re-evaluate if you want to continue with something ambigous. If you guys aren't on the same page as per the direction of this 'relationship' then its like trying to jam a square peg into a round hole, it won't work and there'll always be some sort of inertia.
Thanks, I think that wood be a good conversation to have. I feel like it's been awhile since we've connected emotionally? We seem to only have talked about the day to day motions.
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Off topic but are you from the 'D' or just a Blain Hardy fan?
Was born in the big D and lived there during my childhood years and grew up a Tigers fan have since moved, still in the Midwest and still a tigers fan. Not sure about the lions though haha. 65 is actually an old high school number of mine but I am a Blain Hardy fan too.
I spent a good deal of my childhood growing up in Wayne & Oakland County.

The Lions? Yeah a group of guys that get paid millions of dollars to get together and watch the Super Bowl on Tv every year.

Good luck with your dilemma you are getting good advice.

Hope she's worth it.
Right on, I grew up in Farmington Hills.

Thanks, there's a lot of good guys and information here. Actually was a member previously and posted a bit but forgot my login stuff, lurked for 2 years then decided to join again.


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It's been a week and a half since we last had sex, I didnt wrap it up that time and the next morning she made the comment I should start wearing condoms as she's not on birth control. Had I had one last Saturday I know I could have closed.
That's a long time to go without sex in a new relationship.

Also, if she says you are "dating" that implies exclusivity, IMHO. And if you're exclusive, why the condoms?


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Thinking more about this, if she has not interest in her ex and was at the dance with me as my date, why would she give him the time of day when he isolates her?
That's a good question. I find that disrespectful.
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Texted her a bit yesterday, kept things brief as she was working/exhausted after work. Put a situation in her head with me in it that will likely happen this weekend. She said it sounded perfect and was excited for this weekend.
That's positive. When you are together (after sex, NOT before) tell her you got asked out on a date and if she has an opinion on it. That will clear things up right away.

i like that idea, she kind of threw me a curve ball today. So last week she lined it up and got this Friday off work so that she should come up Thursday night and hangout. I asked her Sunday when I left her place if she still planned on coming up Thursday, she said she wasn't sure and would play it by ear. Her concern is she doesn't have anyone to let her dogs out as her parents won't be around until Friday. This is weird because it's never been a problem for her to find someone to let them out when she has come to see me before? Was really banking on her coming up because it could be our only chance for sex this weekend. We'll be staying in a close quarters cabin with 6 others.


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"Dating" in these parts means "relationship", very distinct from "going on dates".
Hahaha. I mean, what about pregnancy or stds?

A girl who wants to be exclusive with you pretty much hates condoms and will go on birth control and will trust you not to pick up STD's. Sex with condoms is bullshit.

The title of this thread is "can't figure her out". IMHO, it is indeed a puzzle. I'm just trying to help the OP with what little info I have.

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A girl who wants to be exclusive with you pretty much hates condoms and will go on birth control and will trust you not to pick up STD's. Sex with condoms is bullshit.
Some say that they do and don't. I know two guys that have been told it's okay because she's taking birth control. Now they're getting Father's Day cards every year.

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"Dating" in these parts means "relationship", very distinct from "going on dates".
Hahaha. I mean, what about pregnancy or stds?

A girl who wants to be exclusive with you pretty much hates condoms and will go on birth control and will trust you not to pick up STD's. Sex with condoms is bullshit.

The title of this thread is "can't figure her out". IMHO, it is indeed a puzzle. I'm just trying to help the OP with what little info I have.
Oh I mean unprotected sex in a relationship should happen AFTER testing AND AFTER birth control is started. Heck, Ive done it...but its irresponsible I gotta admit. Was just laughing because relationship= condomless/birth controll-less sex is like asking for a baby.
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I see your point. I just rarely orgasm from intercourse, so it's never been a problem for me.

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