Is she a flake/playing games / friend zoning / shit tests?



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 19 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Get Into The Game: New Forum Members Start Here » General Questions




Author Message
PostPosted: Mon Jun 20, 2016 9:36 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Wed Apr 08, 2015 12:37 pm
Posts: 3
Hey dudes, I'd like a few opinions on a hb8 that I met a few months ago.


We met randomly at a party and hit it off immediately, and both ditched the party and chilled at the beach for the rest of the night and hung out the next day, just talking and vibing.
Now here comes the strange part.. I just couldn't bring myself to use any 'tactics' as I've always felt that they're a tool to be used if needed.
It felt much more natural than any set I've ever run before.

After that weekend we went back to our own lives but text daily, after a month of this we dropped the texts as we were both super busy and I was spending my free time on women within a closer proximity for obvious reasons (at the time we were 400 miles apart)

I've recently moved closer and we started texting daily again with phone calls once every week or so lasting 3-4 hours (again something that I don't usually do.

Our schedules are due to change so we'll be able to meet up and she keeps asking for me to call her and making loads of plans for when we have time together.

The part that I find a little weird is that she'll text and talk on the phone for hours then cut it for a few days.
This week we spoke for 40 mins and she mentions more plans for our meets, flirts,calls me a player and says that I'm alpha etc.. then says that she's going to chill tonight and text me, then ... hold on a sec, I've got to pay for my shopping I'll call you back ....

No phone call for 3 days!

This has happened a few times now and she picks it up like nothing has happened

I'm certainly not hung up on this chick or catching a case of oneitis but you know when you get that niggling feeling when you're unsure of what the hell is going on?

Any ideas?


Top
   
PostPosted: Mon Jun 20, 2016 6:42 pm 
Offline
The Grand Puba
User avatar

Joined: Mon Feb 24, 2014 11:17 pm
Posts: 5962
Location: Los Angeles
I read your post...but I'm going to redirect you to the title of the post. Why would you want to deal with any of those four options?

_________________
mpuaforum.proboards.com


Top
   
PostPosted: Mon Jun 20, 2016 10:25 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Sat Apr 02, 2016 12:08 am
Posts: 4
Thanks for the reply.
The reason is that I like to break down any results to figure out where and why it went right or wrong so adjustments can bb made for the future


Top
   
PostPosted: Mon Jun 20, 2016 10:42 pm 
Offline
Ask a mod for a custom title

Joined: Sat Jun 20, 2009 1:32 am
Posts: 3904
Have you done anything with this girl besides meet up and talk?


Top
   
PostPosted: Tue Jun 21, 2016 1:49 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Sat Apr 02, 2016 12:08 am
Posts: 4
No, I can't work out why but I just felt so chilled and just enjoyed tth vibe although now I'm pissed with myself for not escalating etc. She's mentioned that she feels a connection on tth phone and I agreed..
That's about it

I haven't felt afc in years but this ii making me feel that way


Top
   
PostPosted: Tue Jun 21, 2016 1:53 am 
Offline
The Grand Puba
User avatar

Joined: Mon Feb 24, 2014 11:17 pm
Posts: 5962
Location: Los Angeles
WTF...how many accounts do you have OP?

_________________
mpuaforum.proboards.com


Top
   
PostPosted: Tue Jun 21, 2016 4:37 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Sat Apr 02, 2016 12:08 am
Posts: 4
Oh wtf, I've been trying to get back in to my old account for a while, I'm not sure how that just happened..
I'll delete one.


Top
   
PostPosted: Tue Jun 21, 2016 4:39 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Sat Apr 02, 2016 12:08 am
Posts: 4
Oh wtf, I've been trying to get back in to my old account for a while, I'm not sure how that just happened..
I'll delete one.


Top
   
PostPosted: Fri Jun 24, 2016 11:50 am 
Offline
Moderator

Joined: Sat Jul 02, 2011 4:37 am
Posts: 3276
Quote:
Hey dudes, I'd like a few opinions on a hb8 that I met a few months ago.


We met randomly at a party and hit it off immediately, and both ditched the party and chilled at the beach for the rest of the night and hung out the next day, just talking and vibing.
Now here comes the strange part.. I just couldn't bring myself to use any 'tactics' as I've always felt that they're a tool to be used if needed.
It felt much more natural than any set I've ever run before.

After that weekend we went back to our own lives but text daily, after a month of this we dropped the texts as we were both super busy and I was spending my free time on women within a closer proximity for obvious reasons (at the time we were 400 miles apart)

I've recently moved closer and we started texting daily again with phone calls once every week or so lasting 3-4 hours (again something that I don't usually do.

Our schedules are due to change so we'll be able to meet up and she keeps asking for me to call her and making loads of plans for when we have time together.

The part that I find a little weird is that she'll text and talk on the phone for hours then cut it for a few days.
This week we spoke for 40 mins and she mentions more plans for our meets, flirts,calls me a player and says that I'm alpha etc.. then says that she's going to chill tonight and text me, then ... hold on a sec, I've got to pay for my shopping I'll call you back ....

No phone call for 3 days!

This has happened a few times now and she picks it up like nothing has happened

I'm certainly not hung up on this chick or catching a case of oneitis but you know when you get that niggling feeling when you're unsure of what the hell is going on?

Any ideas?
Probably just busy or spending time with another guy or something, who knows, who cares, why does it even matter, she's not your gf.


Top
   
PostPosted: Fri Jun 24, 2016 8:34 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Fri Jun 24, 2016 8:31 pm
Posts: 2
Yes she is, I had the same for three solid years. Men are easily fooled, sucked in and messed up by power games such as this. She probably has a personality disorder.


Top
   
PostPosted: Fri Jun 24, 2016 8:40 pm 
Offline
Ask a mod for a custom title

Joined: Tue Mar 26, 2013 6:34 pm
Posts: 3993
lol move on she sounds touched

once again another guy wasting his time dabbling in shit


Top
   
PostPosted: Fri Jun 24, 2016 9:35 pm 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader

Joined: Tue Mar 31, 2015 3:06 am
Posts: 2540
Classic case of too much texting, not enough escalating.

Beach night was your night.

_________________
Pickup coach. PM for direct, simple coaching.


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 12 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link