Hey guys,

So theres this self-confessed girl who likes to play games a bit who I've got with twice now about 3 months apart.

I'm friends with quite a few of her good friends and we occasionally do stuff as a group but don't see her too often, though when I do there's always that chemistry and flirtiness in the air.

Wont see her for quite some time now as its the holidays and I'm away but wouldn't mind some advice to maybe securing her next uni term, though I'm wary somewhat of these girls who play games and admits "she can be a bitch."

She is too shy to get with me openly in front of her friends - both times I have got with her I've taken her somewhere slightly less obvious - but both times after getting with me she has told me that she doesnt just get with guys, and that I'm the 7th she's ever kissed and she's only slept with her 2 exs.

On a night recently, I had some LMR with her just before I got with her loads, which I interestingly got around by telling her I was dating other girls, to which she got immensely jealous and said "can i fuck it up?". I teased her by admitting that I liked the girl I was gonna go on a date with the next day a fair bit more as it stood, which made her attempt to 'persuade me' by necking me and touching her up a lot. And this was moments before she had told me she likes the chase but instantly loses attraction when she thinks she can just get a guy...fair enough nothing too new there.

So I know that she is a tease and definitely is attracted to me a lot, but I want some advice on how to play it cool and making her chase whilst not putting her off as she is a 'relationship kind of girl' (by this I mean she is very loyal and doesnt really do stuff unless she is in a solid relationship). I would potentially be open towards this as I think she has a lot going for her but am also dating a girl (likely to be joined by a couple of other girls soon who are progressing well) so I'm keeping my options open.

How do you guys reckon its best to proceed to secure a girl like this?

Cheers

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You don't play the game at all. You completely step outside of it and be direct. Flip the script on this chick. You are the prize. I remember one girl who was a cutie for sure, told me straight up "I usually have my exes running back to me"


I said k.
I let 2 months pass. I just hit her up one day and was like "having fun yet ".


Anyway, she loves the attention but you have to make her realize that you aren't going to come to her every time she wants something. Make her wait next time, as hard as that sounds. Fuck it. Next time tell her that she has to try a little harder to keep your attention. If she does try a little harder reward her compliance with attention. Just a little. Push it as far as you can. Rinse and repeat. You aren't some chump like she is used to. Play on your terms.

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