Hi guys,

Hitting the town to try a bit of sarging in bars tonight.

My main aim is to just get some conversation flowing and get past my approach anxiety.

Any tips or motivational speak welcome haha.

Cheers

Do not get too drunk.....

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Ok, not a very successful night really, but I know what I am doing wrong.

First bar that we went into I was keen to get straight into things as a good start for the night. The bar was absolutely rammed with lots of cute girls about. I got a lot of eye contact and smiles from this girl who was standing a short distance away but I should of used the 3 second rule, but instead I stood there like a chump trying to think of a good opener, of course as soon as I did this approach anxiety kicked in and I failed to open, leaving the bar shortly after.

Throughout the night I ended up just getting introduced to people through friends of friends and not approaching sets I didn't know. I really need to work on my approach anxiety, especially when I can see the girls are clearly open to me approaching.

So a bit of a poor start really.

I need a good canned opener really that I can use as a fall back plan if I cannot think up a situational opener.

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Party on Wayne! Party on Garth!
-Shaft

oh wow i have to try it.. lets see if it isn't to bizarre

Hi RouteOne,

I always remember a few things that help me get past approach anxiety.

1st. The majority of girls get screwed by a small number of slimeball players. You and I have to change that.

2nd. Even the best PUA's get approach anxiety. Like Mystery said, you just have to barrel through it.

3rd. The Venusian Arts is all about numbers. A few will catch. A few will give u the cold shoulder. But gotta try the approaches.

Just don't be too hard on yourself after the 1st night sarging. I felt like shit for 2 weeks after my first time sarging. But you get tougher as the days go by. Helps to have a wing woman to pre-validate. And try to approach glancing over your shoulder toward the girl. All of this is in the VAH by Mystery.


Respectfully,

M