This is what I wrote in another thread.

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Third approach
This was my most impressive approach ... yet disappointing close. I went for a walk after lunch to a bookshop. I looked around and missed one opportunity to approach HB7. So I just casually walked around to an adjacent coffee shop and spotted HB9+. Now this girl was stunning. I am talking model looks. Big blue eyes, perfect skin and the most beautiful mouth you'd ever see on a woman. An opening presented itself as she was reading a page on Delhi (city in India) and being of Indian origin I just jumped at the chance and asked, "are you traveling to India?". She said she'd just come back from there. I took the opportunity, pulled up a chair and started asking about her trip. She was more than happy to tell me everything. I made her laugh numerous times and kept eye contact always. She did as well. I noticed her pupils dilated although I suspect she was wearing contacts. I cannot be sure ... but I do watch out for these tell-tale signs that a girl is interested. During the conversation I negged her a teased her a couple of times making her laugh. She was a very nice girl although I feel that she had probably been approached before and had dealt with PUAs. In the end I said I've got to shoot and that I would love to catch up sometime, how about I grab your number. Then the bombshell ... although it was to be expected, she hit me with she already had a boyfriend. I had the perfect response to this though and I said, "hey I didn't ask you to marry me!". Again this made her laugh and she said sure no probs and I handed her my phone and she punched in her digits.

So I guess I did number close but I don't count this as a number close as it will amount to nothing as she is fairly established with her boyfriend. I am not the home-breaker type and so I am not sure what I will do with her number. She said she was keen to catch up for a coffee and talk more.

If I might just bring up the point that I feel this girl may have dealt with approaches before. She was always friendly but I did not see her do any of the other tell-tale signs a girl does when she likes you. Ok, she maintained eye contact and laughed a lot but I could not help but feel she was ... well for want of a better word, measuring me. She was very confident.


Anyways to cut a long story short I am wondering if there is any point in contacting this girl and arranging to meet up for a coffee. I know one thing is that attractive people have attractive friends so there is an opportunity to meet some of her friends. But aside from this I do not see any romantic possibilities as I am certainly not a home-breaker type of guy. I don't believe in stealing other guys gfs. I wouldn't want that being done to me so why would I do it to someone else? That's just me. I draw the line somewhere.

Hey how we all doing? If a girl is going to cheat she will cheat no matter what. Just because she has a boyfriend does not mean that you two cannot be friends. Also he is a boyfriend they are not married and thus you should continue subtly gaming plus any interaction with a woman leads to knowledge and as you said maybe she has a hot friend.

So the LIMITING BELIEF that you will not interact due to her having a bf is just your way of making yourself feel better subconsciously so don't let any excuse get in your way. Why run when you can learn and proceed to the pinnacle of greatness?

ChowforNow,

the--------------------------------------->Saint

"Whether or not you agree with his harsh, straight to the point mentality, truth be told, he’s the most active/ dedicated / motivating member on this board. He’s routinely getting newbies and current members out sarging, pushing them into sets, given them suggestions and advice, replying to posts more often then anyone else. (Come out Wednesdays and you’ll see what I mean). Also, I have not once heard him making excuses about not going out and pussying out. If anyone else can show me this, I will automatically promote you to any status that you want on this board. (including admin).

Now .. I (and others) .. have tried a more sugar coated / feel good approach to getting guys to come out. Truth be told, it hasn’t worked anywhere close as well. I'm disappointed that with all the free resources, and the cool guys that we have offering free advice, so few people actually make use of it, go out consistently, and get better with women, instead of dabbling and keyboard jockeying."

"How did it start?Well, I don't know.I just feel the craving.I see the flesh and it smells fresh.And it's just there for the taking."

"Looking at my own reflection When suddenly it changes Violently it changes Oh no there is no turning back now You've woken up the demon in me"

"Only see, somehow it always seems that I'm learnin' or something I can never be It doesn't matter to me, 'cause I will always be that pimp I see
in all my fantasies I don't know your fucking name.So what?
Let's.fuck"

"Scrutinize every word, memorize every line
I spit it once, refuel, re energize, and rewind
I give sight to the blind, mind sight through the mind

Ehhh, I wouldn't push for her to cheat, but I do think that having a relationship with her doesn't have to be bad. Who says you can't be friends? And as you pointed out, attractive people have attractive friends. I'm sure some of her friends are single. Go Game them! If she's taken, let her be taken. She will come to you if she wants to- if not, don't be near-sighted about it. You have options other than just her.

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Good job first of all on the number close. Man, if she is giving you her number, obviously she is interested in someone else besides her bf. You've heard the phrase, the early bird gets the worm. If she is looking for greener pastures she will find it. if you pass on the opporitunity she will find someone else. take advantage (not of her, of the situation) she picked you. If your interested in her, go for it. otherwise, she will be shagging someone else and calling you telling you how she just met this wonderful man.
I'm not saying get her to cheat, I'm saying pick her off before someone else does. She will do what she wants to do.

B-Sweet

It's a dog-eat-dog world man. If you keep gaming her, she may eventually come to you. You can't force her to cheat though, that's just me. If you are not willing to go there, dude, not only will this HB probably have smoking hot friends, but talk about social proof. Go with her to parties and clubs and that alone may have HBs looking.
-Great bf destroyer on the #-close, impeccable.

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My goal: To become a Pickup Artist in everything but name.

And yeah, This is (still) just the beginning.

All good advice. I am arranging a date for Friday.

yeah, dont make it a date, that would imply that you pay for everything, set it up for you two to meet again. you shouldny pay for something for a woman your not sleeping. Tell her where you will be and tell her she should tag along.

B-Sweet

can i ask how you established a date/ social setup?

if there is any one area i am god awful in it is phone game.

find something interesting that is going on in your area, tell her your going, let her know she can tag along.

B-Sweet