LMFAO. Have you read any of the posters here before?

So an update about this guy - a bunch of us had to go on this work-related trip. The guy didn't ask me out but he more or less was following me around all the time. we had dinner together (just me and him), we ate lunch together, we went in the hot tub together, we went in the pool together.

So yeah, I mean to be honest i was getting SLIGHTLY annoyed because I wanted some alone time, and I felt self-conscious too because I felt like I had to try to look attractive and impress. Anyways, what do you think, does it sound like he just wants to be friends?

there was a different guy i used to know (who moved) who i liked who i was wondering if it was wise to hang out with him as friends since I was interested in more, and i was not interested in chatting with him about whatever girl he was seeing. I'm LESS concerned about that with this current guy- maybe that means I am not that interested? I have a really hard time liking someone.... I like my alone time and independence. I just know that with other guys i've liked, I would always look for reasons/excuses to be around them, and I would look forward to it, and have butterflies and such. i just don't feel the same with this guy... It's almost like I'm forcing myself to like him because I don't like anyone else at the moment!

In this world there are go-getters, and then there is just everyone else on the sidewalk.

Miele, you fit in the later camp. Honestly you sound like a complete kook. Really, I'm done.