Texting a girl for Day 3. No Response



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PostPosted: Sat Jun 18, 2016 9:10 pm 
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Hey guys, so I texted this girl after a day 2 and asked to meet up again and she hasn't responded it's been like a week. I also texted another girl for a day one and didn't get a response yet. With Girl 1 maybe I lost her but I can ping her and see what happens. With Girl two, she's new and she hasn't confirmed after a few days.

Girl 1:
Me: I have the perfect movie in mind :P What are you doing tomorrow
Her: Which one?
Her: I'm babysitting tomorrow.
Her:Actually all this week
Me:Where's the fun in me telling you, ha
Me: Out of town this week. Let's hang next week; we really clicked

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 18, 2016 9:15 pm 
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Girl 2:
Me: You totally get my sense of humor. Let's get together this week Her: I would like that but I'm now on my way to *Out of state* to babysitting adventure until next Sunday. Can we meet when I get back.
Me: Sure; I'll be back from *Out of State* (I said I'd be leaving as well. I travel a lot) by then. I have Tuesday open at 8 PM. How's that

No Response.

So guys, what should I do in both cases. I'm thinking maybe send a image or what should I text.


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 18, 2016 9:27 pm 
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after the 3rd unanswered txt, i just give up and move. thats why its good to be dealing with multiples of girls and to have things to do that occupy time

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 18, 2016 10:08 pm 
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we really clicked
This ^ sounds creepy. May be you'd consider leaving this kinda texts out especially with new girls.

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This ^ sounds creepy. May be you'd consider leaving this kinda texts out especially with new girls.
I use that term with women all of the time and haven't had an issue.

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 18, 2016 10:24 pm 
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we really clicked
This ^ sounds creepy. May be you'd consider leaving this kinda texts out especially with new girls.
For the sake of the conversation we'll say "We got along well" if necessary. So, in both cases what should I do


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 19, 2016 2:17 am 
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OP,
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An interested woman will find 25 hours in a day for you.
Nobody babysits 24/7, and the ones who do are possibly looking for an excuse to do something else fun.

I would take it at face value and move on, and the week after initiate contact one last time.


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This ^ sounds creepy. May be you'd consider leaving this kinda texts out especially with new girls.


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 19, 2016 4:07 am 
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OP,
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An interested woman will find 25 hours in a day for you.
Nobody babysits 24/7, and the ones who do are possibly looking for an excuse to do something else fun.

I would take it at face value and move on, and the week after initiate contact one last time.
I agree man. So, what do you think of Girl 2 who wanted to hang out but when I texted her a date she didn't respond.


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 19, 2016 5:55 am 
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I agree man. So, what do you think of Girl 2 who wanted to hang out but when I texted her a date she didn't respond.
There are a lot of different factors in your interaction that I'm not aware of. So, I'll guess from the little I've seen. For starters, your texts are on the boring side; you've got to learn how to flirt. You're so focused on building a connection ("we really clicked" or "you totally get my sense of humor") when there's little attraction from her side. That is how you make friends, not fuck girls. From your texts and her replies, I get the feeling that she's more of a platonic friend than a woman who's violently masterbating to the thought of you right now. These things are ok to build rapport with, but you need to flirt and escalate properly. Challenge her. Add some value and fun to the conversation. Tease her. When you ask her out, mention the activities, date, time and whatnot, e.g. my last text to a girl I had a fucking great time with was "Hey badass [inside joke], you, me, cupcakes and pizza Friday 6pm [another little inside joke]." Have fun with it and don't be so serious about it.


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 19, 2016 10:34 am 
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First off, there is little information/background to give you any solid advice. When did you meet them? How did the interaction between yous went and so on... Details.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 19, 2016 9:34 pm 
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Hey man, so I was able to screen shot everything. I talked to her on tinder and when we did we got along great. She also said she didn't meet a lot of people from online then said she wanted to meet me. So she may have a scary predisposition about online game.

Here's our text convo. She stopped replying after the text bit I put above

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http://imgur.com/EAjRiAx
http://imgur.com/g38d351
http://imgur.com/iOGAkzJ
http://imgur.com/iLFdZ8e


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 20, 2016 4:20 am 
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I'm going to shoot her a text tomorrow. What would you recommend


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 20, 2016 5:58 am 
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I'm going to shoot her a text tomorrow. What would you recommend
It seems you posted the links backwards. I didn't have time to look it over completely but I skimmed it, and it's good that you kept pushing for a meet, but were you expecting her to propose a time and place? Read R.C.'s texting guide: closing-and-day/topic189023.html


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