So I was dating this girl for a month and a half, when she broke up with me. She' has PTSD, and a few personality disorders, she was also going through a divorce. She broke up with me (three times within the month and a half) for the final time about two months ago. Since those two months have elapsed I've had virtually no success at all with women and I'm wondering after how much time can you break the no contact rule and what do I say when I do? She broke up with me saying that she needed to "work on herself" and that she needed to be alone in order to do that... Well it's been over two months, is that long enough?

Listen to yourself, you are wussying over a girl with issues...man you can do better. I am glad she let you go, move on man...

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Breaking no contact should be done by the person who initiated it. She told you that she wanted to be alone. As for the girl, follow Mr. A's advice.

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Nothing to see past the first sentence. Why would you knowingly get involved with someone so messed up? Sad.

He is just as messed up as her, if not...worse. Probably the reason why they like each other :p

I am willing to bet that he never had sex with her either, but that's another story

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Wow

Really I'd sooner be single than be with such a damaged person.

My friend was with a girl for 4 months who had PTSD and anxiety and depression and whatnot. He took really good care of her, made sure she felt happy, etc. She trampled on his sleep by calling him at 3am for attention, was really needy overall, she abused his affection, broke up with him 3 times in 4 months, and eventually broke up with him for the final time because he was "too nice" (or, perhaps, not spontaneous / "fun"). This guy spent hundreds of dollars on her. If you want to go down the same path, go for it.

I have. She is by far the freakiest girlie ever been with, just one of the many reasons I'd like to be with her again

i cant possibly understand why would you want to be with her,but that shit will kill you,my ex was fucking impossible and playing stupid too much,and she wasn't even 1/10 of what you described here

crazy chics are usually freaks, real sexual defiants

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The mindset of someone with little to no self-esteem. At this point your mind will justify any reason to contact her. I've no interest in 'helping' you because that means encouraging you to be in contact with a fuck-up that will derail your entire life. The reality is you're very unhealthy yourself. If you had a higher self opinion you'd have run for the hills by now.

I'd say best of luck but really the outcome of this is obvious.

I will wait for you in the months to come. I will wait for that question where you ask us what to do when this girl starts cheating on you or when you start venting about how you did all this for her and she still broke up with you.




I'm going to be like ohhhh really. No pussy is worth the struggle.

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He'll likely be too embarrassed and come back with a different nickname, and Neo will expose him with his investigative skills.

FYI if a girl breaks up with you, you NEVER reach-out to her that's the most chode-like behavior you can engage in. She's done, move on. More than likely she's got some other guy's throbbing cock in her.