do what you like, just be yourself.. not wearing a sexy dress doesn't mean your not sexy..

Don't let these haters posting get you down. If you're happy you are in pretty good shape. These guys just wanna think pickup is some wild lifestyle where you simultaneously don't care about women while building a lifestyle women will like...but not for women despite saying you need it to get women.

Circular logic. Stay healthy and happy

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You build your life for you, not women. Having an attractive lifestyle helps you get women, but that shouldn't be the main reason you're doing it. Can you guess why?

Lol. Come on dj don't twist what I said. If you're referring to what I said.Notice I never mentioned women in my response. And never mentioned wild lifestyle. If the guy is sitting at home most likely his lifestyle is unhealthy. I can't believe there are people actually encouraging him to stay at home and be happy... If his life was what he wanted he wouldn't be here asking how to bring women into it. If he wants to stay at home and watch the computer fine.. But I guarantee in 10 years he will regret it.

Neo, I did not quote anyone for a reason. I was arguing against a common idea with flaws, not an individual. I genuinely think that a lot of guys in the community are afraid of being called everything from nerds to losers to mysoginists. As a result, rather than give tangible advice people talk about lifestyles and other nonsense.

I'd say a guy has to have his shit together before learning cold approach pickup. But it seems like he's got that.

OP, let's say you are right and your lifestyle would be little to no obstacle. What would you like to learn right now?

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Let me tell you this from both an anecdotal and professional perspective:

There's something VERY, VERY unhealthy if your normal is staying home, playing video games, dissociating with the world. It's always indicative of some sort of psychopathology - a social anxiety disorder, depression, suicidaility, various forms of personality disorders etc. In fact, Alfred Alder said it best that the true measure of one's psychological health was their level of social interest/engagement within society. The LESS socially engaged/invested one is in society the higher the correlation to mental illness.

And to reiterate, this is NOT about pickup, rather about creative an attractive, healthy lifestyle for yourself, and as a byproduct you learn the true meaning of abundance and others will gravitate towards that energy.

Nice quote. Apparantly I shook you up with my critique of extroverted culture and also degenerate culture. I am not mentally ill nor do I sit at home ALL day. I prefer quieter activities over extroverted activities. But I don't take it to an extreme. So calm down, you got the wrong guy.

As for this theory from old man alfred..Hah...Take a look at Trump and then tell me if this theory is accurate.

OP, its not either you sit at home all day, or you're a "degenerate" who is a sports fanatic and all those other crazy things you describe youths as. I havent met anyone fitting your definition of modern youth. And most women dont go for those people. Where is this demand for homosexual dressed bearded sports fanatic men? If women are ok with your lifestyle, and you dont want to change it fine. If you're content, stay the same. If women arent staying around, or problems attracting them, and you want to change that, you have to change your lifestyle. I cant tell you how to gain serious muscle if you dont want to lift weights and diet accordingly. All I can say is if you want to muscle, lift the weights, if you dont want it that bad then dont. Every guy comes looking for the simplest way to affect change with women or other areas and in my opinion, you gotta change whats not working. Everything cant be exactly how you want it to be right now, and magically your dating life improves. If you just want a woman who will share your lifestyle, thats ok too...match.com and play the numbers till it lands.

"Shook you up?" Ok.

Ive read your story and the responses and if you went to different countries or did things outside your comfort zone but still feel like this is not for you i am curious why going to different countries did not excite you, what have you been doing there, visiting musea?

There different type of people, i can sense your not fitting in the "lets drink 16 beers and hit on woman tonight" category and that's fine. You should find friends who share the same interests as you whether its gaming or reading books.... Same with woman, there are girls who like to game all day but dont expect them to have nice round titties and a fit body.....

So go out and make friends who fit you, that you connect with and go from there...

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Why are you even on this forum?

Neo said it well. You want muscle but don't wanna lift nor diet because that's what fanatic youths do and you won't count calories or god forbid join a gym.

In reality, you despise that which you are not, and think of yourself incapable of becoming. So if you can't be like them, you default to pathetic attempts of exaggeration and preach about homosexually dressed sports fanatics?

From what kind of cave have you emerged from?

Your problem is not being an introvert, your problem is your attitude towards the people around you.

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Your problem is that you, N2, and NeoNazi, don't know how to read. I already live an attractive lifestyle. I exercise, go places when I feel like it, sarge, improve my life, etc. Yo fac lucru.

The "attitude" you speak of. Here I will explain it. One last time and no more for you mentally challenged kids. In places where I used to live in Chicago you can't go outside and not run into homosexual scum so, a guy who wants to go out becomes disgusted once he sees all the crap around him. Unfortunately, the spots girls consider cool are near to homosexuals and "jersey shore" dickheads, and other types of degenerates. When you got to experience this visual shit, it ruins your mood and makes you feel like not even going out. Yo nu maduc. That's what I meant by that.

Many similar examples. A German man goes outside and sees Turkish rats all over town and doesn't feel good anymore.

It's similar to when you see a girl you like, but all her male friends are pieces of shit. It makes you not even want to like her anymore.

Well the answer can be simple - Go to more heterosexual places. Problem is, now you have to deal with seeing redneck scum. Great...

That's about as best as I can put it...If you still don't understand, you are likely a degenerate yourself, therefore you feel at ease when you are around other degenerates. Instead of the normal person who feels disgusted.

Lol. Neo Nazi... Its not even a good joke but it made me laugh

Op, so much of what you said was just left field... I'll just ask if you're living this attractive lifestyle as you say why ask about not having an attractive lifestyle? I don't know where you live but maybe you need to move. Because when I go out, I rarely run into rednecks, homosexuals, Jersey shore dudes. Where the fuck do you come across these people? If your city only has these people then you need to move. Real life isn't rampant with the people you describe. What you describe is a flat out lie. It's just an excuse to make you feel better. I'll let n2 break down whatever psychosis affects you. I really hope you see the world more objectively and without anger.

Classic example of the illusory superiority bias.

A man who thinks he's lived all there is to live and that he's better than the other scum who roam the planet, completely unaware of how degenerate he is himself.

If I choose to live on the moon, then bitch about that there are no girls there to hook up with.

I would accept responsibility that is was my retarded idea that I went there in the first place.

You have no chance, rest02, whilst you're making excuses for yourself, there are people fucking each other all the time. Just not in your Mom's basement.

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