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I invested nothing because I didn't even see her that much. she's chased me not the other way round plus she did other sexual stuff to me.
just to put it in context I had surgery last year on my intenstine and my stomach was sore for months after so last thing I wanted to do was have sex after it.
I think your mistaken thinking i'm actually making any effort with this chick. i've been dating other girls and i'm not invested i've not wasted anytime. so save your dumbass award for someone else. at the end of the day if I really wanted to sleep with her I would have, trust me it's different when you deal with classy girls they don't give it up and I don't give a fuck anyway.
sorry didn't know there was an award for how many girls you can sleep with on here. I frankly couldn't care i'm looking for a girl I actually like. sleeping with a bunch of girls you don't really have a connection with is a waste of time, done it in the past and don't see the point.
Moose, the reason you look stupid is because your actions are downright crazy. You go on 10+ dates with a chick and dont even kiss her. When that same chick hits you up, you spend time responding to her and have her stringing you along under the excuse of "well Im not wasting any time really...she's contacting ME." You date another chick for a year, who is unattractive to you, who you dont sleep with. You refer to girls you havent kissed as exs. Now, I dont know if this year long chick is ugly, but I can assume so. Cause if she's still interested in you after a year of not fucking, and no offense, your actions scream desperation in MANY of your cases...so I see a girl chasing a desperate guy...so I assume she's desperate = ugly. Now, nothing wrong with being ugly, im not even trying to insult the chick. She's not here to read this. But if a guy is fat, I'd describe him as fat. It is what it is. A word that describes them. Now, if I were calling a fat guy fat to his face, thats an insult. Beyond that, Im a stranger on the internet. Either she's ugly or she's not. If she is ugly, ok...its just the truth. If she's not, well Im just a guy making wrong assumptions. No need to get like that. Its just that, and this is just being honest, I cant imagine the chick that would chase a guy like yourself for a year as NOT being some kinda wildabeast. Calling girls exs and not making a move, and dating chicks you dont even find attractive, man...you gotta admit people can only assume your options and confidence suck. Its like if bartm were to say he passed up fucking a girl. I'd assume she was hideous.
Whether she's ugly or not, I dont care. If you were happy with her, great! I'd never tell a guy to leave an ugly chick if he's happy and attracted to her. But you're not. You're just dating this girl for what I can only assume is lack of better options. Like RC said, the way you live your life is really off the wall, and whats scary is you cant even see that. You see classy as a chick who doesnt have sex with you for a year? Thats sad. A girl who wants to be your gf, when even you admitted you havent invested anything...this equals classy to you?
Your view is so scewed its fascinating.
Girls you go on 10 dates with = exs
Girls who chase you for a year with no investment from you = classy
A girl wasting your time on fb = a girl you should keep talking to
And come on, you cant tell us you go on 10+ dates and dont kiss a chick, you are dating a girl you dont find attractive with no sex, and expect us to beleive you ever had the balls or skills to bed someone, let alone "slept with a bunch of chicks." Save that shit for your high school friends because thats bs. I know guys with under 5 lays and they dont get into the kind of situations you do.
Anyways, find a girl you like and stop wasting time on the ones you dont. Correction find a girl who likes and who likes you. You seem to keep focusing on chicks you like who dont like you, or on chicks who like you who you dont like. Its really fucking simple. Find someone you like and who likes you.
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