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PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2016 1:03 am 
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Just an update.

She came over two nights last week and stayed the night the second time. She leaves to go back to her country on Sunday, and although she'll be back for 10 days for graduation in a months time, she's going to be in her country for about 3 months (till September).

We both talk about plans for next year I.e. Things we want to do in the city, but I really don't know what's going to go on over those 3 months that she's gone. She keeps telling me how good it is where she lives so I don't whether to suggest visiting for a few days (although it's a 5 hour flight away...)

What would you guys suggest? We haven't actually 'slept' together yet btw


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Just an update.

She came over two nights last week and stayed the night the second time. She leaves to go back to her country on Sunday, and although she'll be back for 10 days for graduation in a months time, she's going to be in her country for about 3 months (till September).

We both talk about plans for next year I.e. Things we want to do in the city, but I really don't know what's going to go on over those 3 months that she's gone. She keeps telling me how good it is where she lives so I don't whether to suggest visiting for a few days (although it's a 5 hour flight away...)

What would you guys suggest? We haven't actually 'slept' together yet btw
This is just sad. All the OP focused on was talk and text instead of sticking his penis in her vagina. There's not even a single evidence of OP escalating aside from the kiss a long way back.

Just saying, OP, you have a very low testosterone level. You're more enamored with talk instead of taking action. You don't listen to advice to escalate and f-close. ESCALATE AND FUCK CLOSE. When your window of opportunities is gone, it's gone.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2016 7:42 am 
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Was texting her today when she suddenly said:

Her : "You know that bar you mentioned, well we can go there next year now as I've decided to do my Masters at {university in same city as my internship next year}!"

I was obviously delighted to hear this. I replied:

"We're gonna go to so many concerts next year! :D"

Hopefully I'll see her tomorrow for a coffee. Thanks for all the advice guys, I'll keep you updated.
You poor, oblivious bastard.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2016 8:04 am 
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Hey confused kid,
I just read through this thread and I was wondering what you talk about with this girl?
Is it purely platonic? Do you talk about her and tease her about how she makes you feel?
Do you touch her? Do you guys talk about sex? Do you joke about your interests? Do you share interests? Do you do other stuff besides grab coffee?

What do you want from this girl? Does she know you want that? Is it even clear and reaffirmed to her that you like her? What do you think her understanding of the relationship between the two of you is? Friendship?, Romance?, Secret sexual hookups?, Ambiguously undefined randomness with no current outcome?

I'm interested to hear your thoughts on these questions if you are interested in answering.


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