I've had two dates with younger girls. I'm 27 and they've been 23 and one 25. Neither with careers and seemingly maybe mentally unstable.

Last night, I met a girl who despite having a hurt foot, glass injury came down to see me in town and I picked her up. Comedy club, we got on great. Great kino escalation, kiss close. IoI off charts.... She's touching my face, complimenting me, I drive her home to where she lives and we agree Thursday would be cool.

I get back home here and now she has taken me off insta.... She said she wanted to add me
On FB to check for non catfish status and now after last night being amazing, kissing a lot etc... Sudden U turn. Better now than later but seriously.... What is with women lately. Quality is so low lately. It's strange.

Do women suddenly stop talking to someone because they feel maybe inadequate if someone is way more driven than them and actually does something? If someone is attracted to you they won't do that....

The 25 year old was last week and again, house on fire, she touches me a lot and even on second date rubbing my crotch and now making a lot of sexual innuendo. We went to mine and she said she wanted to go home. My place is nice. Clean and spacious and lighting is awesome.

She was supposed to come over for me to make dinner and she cancels for no reason and no reschedule either and we don't speak after that as I haven't messaged due to that being shit to do to anyone and I'm not gonna have that shit.

Even though it's not that important as there's many women I'm speaking to and arranging dates with.. The stranger thing is that she said 1. She likes me 2. Things in common a plenty especially rare things like music playing and by ear also and 3. The 23 year old was all over me physically and wouldn't get out of my car as her mouth was occupied with mine....

And next day sudden u-turn? Seriously!

It's hard for me to speculate on exactly what it is you did wrong without being there.

This summarizes it though: women can get pretty much any guy they want. So, they have a mentality of abundance i.e. if there is even the smallest thing that throws them off about you its game over. I'd find a wing to give you in-field feedback. Otherwise just keep practicing your game with women.

The only way you having a career gets girls to ghost you is if you acted stuck up or conveyed that you 2 weren't relatable. It's most likely not you career or you being driven unless you conveyed that it mattered.

What I think happened if it wasn't something specific on the dates is you escalated too much without converting to sex and triggered buyers remorse. If you're not gonna fuck the chick that night keep the kissing to a minimum. It kills to tension for next time and makes the chick regret moving so fast.

I'm willing to bet that most guys that don't get a second date after escalating towards sex without achieving it is caused by this issue.

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Yeah thats the whole "I don't understand... She was grabbing my crotch throughout the date and kissing me like crazy... And then once I dropped her off she disappeared"

Keep in mind this is coming from a guy that hasn't been laid in only 2 years. I looked like shit for a while, like a homeless guy. Lately I cleaned myself up and am building my confidence back. More to life than just drinking beers, running 4:15 miles and putting together DFS lineups. My take..

You did nothing wrong. You could sit back and analyze these dates 50 million different ways trying to pick up little things. Honestly, at this point it doesn't f-king matter, the past is in the past and there's plenty more women out there. Just keep doing what you're doing and eventually you'll break through. The fact of the matter that you're creating this escalation is better than 99% of the other guys out there so it's just a matter of time IMO.

What don't you ask them if they can be honest and just tell you where things went left. Perhaps its something practical you can fix, or something you can tell us and we can tell you what the issue really is.

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