I have been dating the same woman for about a year and a half now. She has a kid from a relationship that ended 7 years ago, right after the kid was born. He's out of the picture and hates him. However, she started dating someone else 6 years ago and broke up with him about 9 months before she met me I think (he was a former friend). Her daughter saw him as a friend (only real male figure in her life) while they dated and every once in a while, she (the daughter) asks to see him (the boyfriend of 6 years) and my girlfriend takes her to see him (as far as I know, it's happened twice since we met over a year ago). I don't really like it. When I brought it up, my girlfriend said "it's not about us". She still talks with this guy every once in a while as far as I know. I don't really like it (was once a friend, then became a lover, now back to just a friend). She (my girlfriend) has told me that once it's over, it's over (the lover part) from her perspective but I just don't like the guy "being around". But me not liking it makes me feel like I'm some insecure loser so I've generally just let it go with the attitude of "if she's dumb enough to cheat on me with him, then good riddance." I don't think it will happen, but I'm just not a fan of any kind of communication with an ex like that. She doesn't see any issues with it (hell, she still talks with her ex husband that she divorced over 10 years ago) but I don't have any issues with that. It's just this guy she was friends with, then dated, and she's still in communication with.

Any advice beyond what I'm already doing?

Answered this in your duplicate post

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