I am getting more and more game as I dedicate my life to the game. Now, this has me in new territories. As I meet more and more women I tend to come by women who are married, have boyfriends, and pretty much a dude as an orbiter.



Have you guys ever been caught ? Have they ever tried to kick your ass ? Last thing I need in my life is a woman who failed to tell me about her marriage and her man is on the hunt for who is banging his wife/girlfriend.

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Believe it or not, most guys are rational when you play it cool. The first thing that I've realized is that most guys won't confront you in person, it's usually a text or a phone call. The moment that you're being confronted, don't confirm anything or deny anything. Don't try to put him down or her down. Tell him that this conversation should be between him and his girlfriend/wife. If he keeps persisting, just tell him that his problem isn't with you but instead with her and her actions and that he needs to confront her about this.

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I have been getting those same kind of results. Thanks for the tip though. I definitely dig the whole put on the girl type deal because honestly, if she is the one entertaining my advances, he has other things to worry about than me.

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I've regrettably had sex with a few married women and certainly a lot more with women in relationships.

In most cases its better to play the "don't ask" don't tell game, if you are aware of her situation then its best to make it a one night affair.

Without getting deep into the "why" women are doing it, in my experience some of the most common reasons are lack of sex and passion in the woman's life or you are the bad boy type and she's always wanted that and/or you are the polar opposite of her "safe" boyfriend/hubby

The great thing about seducing women in relationships is that they are only into it for the sex, you don't need a lot time or a song and dance to seduce them.

I have been confronted a couple times. Regardless if you knew or not it's always best to play dumb even seem like you are a victim in it all. Be respectable and look for the opportunity pass the buck back onto her or show it was nothing personal. You are a man, men know how men act.

The great thing about it is that most men who get cheated on are not alpha so the odds of you getting killed or fucked up really bad are not as high as one might think.

If this is something you are ok with doing, here are some suggestions for rules to follow

Don't fuck any girls that are with any men that you know
Use a fake name
Don't take her to your house unless you have to
Go out of town to sarge( don't eat where you shit)
Don't seduce women that are in groups with male friends or couples.
Keep the encounters to a minimum

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Exactly. As long as you don't disrespect them, most guys can get that logic. If you go after their ego then they'll likely respond emotionally.

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Knowing some MMA won't hurt.

I'm joking, to a degree. I've been confronted before and as Jack said it's almost always a phonecall or facebook. It really comes down to your people skills and how you handle to dude. If you're gonna be condescending and disrespectful, yeah, things may escalate.

But that realistically never happens. She entertained your advances. What's he gonna do? beat up every single dude that looks at his girl? It sucks to be in his shoes no doubt, but his problem is not you, it's her. Because *you* are, potentially speaking, any and all men.

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So the consensus is just play the victim and shrug it off as a my bad.


I have had a couple instances where the girl didn't tell me about the dude. I found out through either him via a phone call or being confronted "so you made out with my girl" or I snooped through social media. I have so far done it naturally so I am glad that you guys reinforced it. I basically said my bad...

The guy that made that phone call, just out of curiosity, I snooped her facebook. The guy knocked her up months later. I was just like in my head "wow, have fun man."


I thought about taking some self-defense just because it would be cool to know how to defend myself and those I care about if I ever needed to...I might dabble in that this summer.


It's hard not to seduce women in groups because sometimes that is what you see nowadays. Either girls out by themselves or out in groups with some dudes. On Friday night, this girl was passing by and i stopped her. She said I was cute blah blah and she was rolling with her "cousins" if that was a true statement. Regardless I number closed her and all that jazz while she was telling me that "I shouldn't be talking to you because my cousins are here"

I disregarded and proceeded. So I might be a small time homewrecker and I thank you guys for the tips.

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Guess I have a bit more respect for myself than to mess with somebody already in a relationship.

Eh, most of the time I find out after the fact.. Girls ain't loyal.

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You seem to have an issue with that.

People are only as loyal as their partners deserve. If needs are not being met, they will find someone that meets them.

People. Not men, not women. But both.

And no one said "play the victim". You're not a victim. You don't force someone to cheat, that's their choice. Whether it's with you or someone else is entirely irrelevant.

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I have gotten better with that issue, RC. It does pop up here and there because I dislike being lied to very much so I never forget, but maybe I should start forgiving..


We will see. I won't be actively seeking girls in relationships/marriages, but I know I will run into them. Just trying to avoid sticky situations.

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I haven't slept with anyone's woman but I'm sure most men won't do shit about it.
I confronted a lot of men in my life and it rarely arrived to physical confrontation. Most people
are afraid of violence.
Here's the main point, you will meet 2 types of men alpha and beta:
1. Alpha will beat your as no matter what you say
2. Beta won't touch you no matter what you say
Again, I haven't slept with someone's woman but it comes from lot's of confrontations on other reasons.

[quote="R.C I agree with this, however their is a huge difference between why women cheat and why men cheat.

Although it can be generalized by saying needs are not met, in my experience that is more suited to women. I've cheated on amazing girlfriends( so have my friends) not because I was un happy in my relationship or had any needs being un-met. I did it because I wanted to and I could. Once you get good at seducing women, it's tough to quit.

It may seem douche like, but its just how men are, its in our DNA.

On the flips side, I've found that women on holidays are very open to cheating regardless if they are happy or not. It is quite common for vacationing women to cheat. In fact! Ive come across more then couple groups of women on vacation that have made pacts with each other to cheat and keep secret by all doing it.

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Yes, biologically men are turned on by diversity. But that's still a need.

And if your relationship isn't fulfilling it with the occasional threesome or whatever, you'll eventually find it somewhere else.

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Men generally would rather have found out that their girl was a cheater than not. In some ways, you did them a favor by exposing their character. Women cheat to meet needs, have fun, etc. Many of the same reasons men do. Boundaries are a big one. If a girl is a cheater, she will cheat. If she isn't prone to cheating, she won't entertain it. It sounds simplistic, but it generally comes down to a few paths. Girl either is willing or not. Girl that is willing will either tell their significant other, or not. That's your classifications. In this case, OP, you're right for avoiding relationships. Being unstable is one thing, but I don't think the generalization of this guy is "alpha" or not is the problem. Women cheat because their needs aren't met, the same way men do. Yes, you can rationalize they are perfect for you, but generally that only becomes an emotional reason that drives you AFTER you are going to lose them. Until then, it's a logical reason and can be ignored. So be careful. Just because you pulled it off doesn't mean someone else hasn't and that the boyfriend isn't on his last thread of sanity. It happens far more than we might want to recognize.