Have this friend ive know for 13 years. He just got engaged to his girlfriend for 10 yrs whom he has a son with. I have my girlfriend and thought itll be cool to us four to hang out. But then he started being weird. He started talking to her in a flirty way with his squinty eyes and head tilted to the side. Like straight up gaming. And my girl is short with him and tries not to be rude as well. I tell her to just be a bitch to him and hell back off. But either way i dont like this whole thing and it makes me angry. I tried just not bringin my girl around him and still he awkwardly ask for her or about her and tries to set up times he can come over with his fiance to chill. And i feel he wants to just try to get closer to my girl and thinks hes being low key but doesnt realize how stupid and obvious he looks.

What could i do to make the whole thing stop ? Apart from this he always tries to be a good friend i guess.

Should i just stop chilling with the dude period? Or does it make me seem like the jelous dude? Even when my girl notices it as well and is uncomfortable about it.

Talk to him about it.

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If you genuinely suspect foul play, dont let it slide and talk to him about it, if it continues I would not let your gf socialize with him, just dont bring her along when you are with him.

I think you have some issues.

If you think a friend of 13 years is genuinely trying to grab your girl.. And you're willing to stop chilling with him because he friendly flirted with your gf?

Fucks sake, how often do you ever get girls?

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my friends girlfriend gave me a blowjob,we are still friends cos i told him about that,they broke up,they got together again since i blew her off,i would never destroy friendship for any girl,but that"s me,i"m still friend with him as well with her

LMAO...your friend's girlfriend gave you a blowjob but you would never destroy a friendship for any girl? That's hilarious.

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hilarious or not,that"s what happened,he values friendship over pussy and so do i,reason friendship didn't die,and it would be tragic if it did since we know each other for over 15 years now

So you're free to get blowjobs from her now that they are back together?

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Does anyone think about the words they say anymore?

You got a bj from your friends girl. Sounds like you're the shit friend tbh. Then he's fine with that.. But you want to cut him off because he flirted with your girl?

Got to be trolling.

Are you to pussified to call him out? A simple "Are you hittin on my girl?" Within earshot of his girl, should fix it.

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i didn't cut him off,doesn't matter,they were together for a month then and they broke up,then she gave me a bj and wanted me to fuck her,then i told her to get dressed and leave,i went to his place and told him about that,he said you should have fucked her,i said yea maybe but i didn't,now they are back together and i am glad that he is happy,no friendship ruined,we went out together,me and her and nothing happened and nothing will with her,long story short

Your first post was confusing. You made it seem like she was with him when she gave you a blowjob and that caused the breakup.

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it"s like this,we were at my place,him,her and friend of theirs,we were drinking and having fun,he got drunk and fell asleep,she started hitting on me,i blew her off,she started again,i blew her off again,she started scratching me,i pushed her away,he woke up a bit later and realized something was wrong with her,i did nothing at that point,they left and tomorrow they broke up,2 or 3 days later she started talking to me on fb,i said ok we"ll hang out,she came to my place,we drank 2 beers,sitting on the couch,staring at each others eyes for about 10 min,then she kissed me,i took her to the room,stripped her naked,she gave me a bj,my phone started ringing,he was calling me,i said i"ll be there in few minutes,told her to get dressed and leave,i went to his place,told him what happened,he said you should have fucked her,i said yea maybe but i didn't,they are together again and no friendship is ruined,we went out 2 weeks ago and all cool

And you somehow don't think you should have talked to him BEFORE inviting her over?

Jesus.

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What the hell bro? Call him out on it. Why are you telling us? Tell him the exact same shit that you're telling us.

Also, don't talk to your girlfriend about it. Talk to your boy about it. Its you and his problem. Don't bring it up to her again; it makes you look weak. The dude clearly doesn't respect you. Its not wise to bring your girl around people who don't have respect for you. She'll question whether or not she should respect you if all these other people don't.

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