She told you - she isn't looking for a serious relationship. Your BEST option is to continue to be relaxed, and use her as simply a fun get away when you are in her part of the world. The more you continue to try to force this relationship, the more she'll realize you're uncapable of having something casual and just get rid of you. Maybe she is realizing she is 16, and you're 21, and her family/friends won't approve. Maybe it is that she is only 16 and can't even understand the concept of a relationship, let alone long distance. What you are asking is just unrealistic, and you two would have to go through considerable lengths to make this work. Save your energy and find someone else to obsess about. Easier said than done, yes. However, it wont be long until you have to. She's pushing away. You need to take her advice and keep things light and fun. She wants x, you want y. You can't force her hand. In the end, you're being needy, yes. You NEED this to work out. Literally, don't think this is your special someone. First day you met and you two fucked. She's looking for FUN. Don't be a buzz kill.

He's already attached, good luck moving back.
He'll push her away, guaranteed.
This goose is as good as done.


The subject essentially reads "Need to make this girl as crazy for me as I am for her. HELP!!"

Am I the only one that finds this fucking disgusting?

I get it, she's not underage. Consent in my country is 15 I think so it's not even a culture thing. It's just, how can a grown ass 21yo man be this pathetic over what's virtually a child?

She's still a damn pubescent.

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