| Hi everyone, im coming here because im lost and have no where else to go. I feel like i am a shit situation and really need help. I'll keep it Brief.
The other week, the woman i love told me, she never loved me and still loved her ex, that she didn't want to be with me anymore. Later in the week, she accidently called me and i could hear she was on a date which cut me to the bone.
In response ive tried to get back out into the game, but this just made me feel more shitty, the truth is i can talk to women, and have always punched above my weight, my ex was so much better looking than me. I just know now, she will be able to easily get with men, much better looking than me and that kills me.
I turned to internet dating to move on, but the real kick in the teeth is, that ive been dumped at the worst time ever. My teeth were bad, i had temp half fixes done with veneers, but i really needed braces, so while with my ex i decided to get braces, this in turn has straigtned my gums, but because the veneers were made to look right with crooked gums my teeth look horrible now, until the braces come off and new veneers go on.
I'm also balding, in the worst way, diffuse thinning, and whats left on the side is greying. I live in a cold country so have no tan at all. I shave my head with a 0, and in a room it looks ok, but out in bright daylight , it looks bald at top.
Im big into weights but i train fore strength rather than asthetics. I am currently 16stone. at 5'11 at about 30percent bodyfat. I do olympic weightlifting, so my shoulders are huge but carry all fat on belly and chest.
Despite all these i was doing ok with women before, but the braces and the extra bit of fat put on in a relationship means i wont get anyone near the same level as my ex, until the braces come off in october. This is good in one way, as it gives me a goal to aim for, get down to 14stone by time braces come off, get a tan from tanning beds and do the odd bicep work to get some guns.
However, 5 months is a long time, when i know my ex is out there now. This is what im struggling with. I have never been here before, i dont know what this communitly likes or doesnt, you might all call me a pussy and tell me to man up.
I don't mind, i can take it. But i hope among any shit, there is someone who can provide me with some good advice, something to lift my spirit and think i can get through this.
Bring it on.
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