To be honest, I'm a little lost for words with this whole situation and really lost on how I should approach this.

4 People in this scenario "Me, My Girlfriend (Morgan), My Girlfriends best friend (Sarah) Her Boyfriend (Pike)

Morgan and Sarah have been best friends for four years. They are both freshman in college now. Sarah started dating a new guy about four months ago, Pike. Pike is 42 years old and wealthy dating Sarah who is 19. Ever since they started dating Pike has changed Sarah a lot as a person. Pike has always had a thing for my girlfriend Morgan. Before Morgan and i started dating, Pike had been talking Sarah into becoming more sexual with Morgan. Morgan has never been into the idea of being sexual with Pike or being sexually active with Sarah.

Since Sarah is head over heals for this rich 42-year-old. She wants to do as he says. Sarah also has a thing for Morgan which Morgan never knew about until this upcoming night. One night Pike talked Sarah into bringing Morgan to the strip club with Pike and Sarah. He got Morgan about 3-4 shots deep after the show with Sarah. He then talked Morgan and Sarah into fingering etc. and he got Morgan to give him head in his car.

Morgan did this for Sarah. Since Pike strongly talks Sarah into getting Morgan involved with them. After that night Morgan knew that she didn't want to do that kind of thing again let alone go further.

At this time Morgan and myself were not exclusive, so it wasn't a challenge for me. A couple weeks after that incident though was when we officially started dating. Pike's overall goal is to have a 3-way with Morgan and Sarah. Morgan does not want anything to do with it. For the past 2 months, Pike and Sarah have been trying to get Morgan to do more with them sexually with a lot of texting and trying to get her to meet up. This is while we are dating. They do not stop trying. They think that because of that one instance, Morgan does want it.

This is where it get's tough. I have talked to morgan about blocking their numbers etc.etc but the idea of loosing Sarah completly hurts her, since they have been best friends for so long. Morgan thinks she can get Sarah to break up with Pike, and turn back into her old self.

Since i am friends with Sarah, i tried to confront her about it thought text. Pike texted back on Sarah's phone with subtle threats to, and that i shouldn't not get involved. They both also text my girlfriend with subtle threats towards me if i get involved.

I can't help but be a little fearful of the whole situation. Since he is 42, and wealthy, it scares me a little bit on the idea of what he could do hypothetically speaking.

I'm comming to this form because i honestly have no idea how to deal with a situation like this. If you guys have any adivee please please pleaseeeee share it with me.

So your girlfriend is telling them that she wants nothing to do with them when it comes to sex but doesn't want to give up her best friend. Sounds like she's capable of making her own decisions. Why do you feel the need to get involved if she has it under control?

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I feel like the 42 year old after enough time could manipulate her into thinking other ways. Kind of like what he did with his girlfriend.

So you get yourself in the middle of it, now you're scared. Your girlfriend doesn't want to lose this friend, so you can't stop that from happening. You believe that she can be manipulated into having sex with them. Isn't this too stressful of a relationship for you to be in if you voiced your concerns to her?

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OP Why the drama diva?

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You're right, maybe i was a little dramatic. I wrote this last night when i was peaking with emotion.

And yes, it is stressful at this moment, but the pros definitely out way the cons, and other than this, i am very happy with the relationship.

If it quacks like a duck...

@OP. Date 10 other girls. Let this one go.

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Yea... I really don't understand why you're so worried. She doesn't want to do it from what you know. I'm sure she knows you don't like what's going on. So with both that it should be clear but ultimately it will be up to her.

Not like there is really much you can do about it. I just would not worry about it. I am so much more successful with girls now that I don't worry about who they are seeing or what they are doing around the clock. Why torture yourself with that when there are other enjoyable things to do?

This is funny fucked up story. This is the same chick who asked what you would do if she cheated? I don't know what you want to hear but truth is if she's friends with people who threaten you and she already sucked the guys dick due to "alchohol" and she's this controlled she's gonna give in again for her friend. Frankly your gf doesn't respect you or care enough to not follow her friend.

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Well damn...this is the same guy? My answer has changed. She's hanging out with people that actively want to fuck her, and likely have but she's limited it to a bj story. She also asks what you would do if she cheats and there's part of you that knows that she will. People will tell you who they are without using the words, you just have to be smart enough to listen to the message.

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Neo's on the ball calling these guys out. Damn. Really, I m just too lazy to search histories on people, or remember posters' names.

Yeah I find many posters get advice then a couple days later give one aspect of the story for more advice. It's crazy to me as why would you ask for advice but be deceitful at your own detrement

Insecurity breeds insecurity. Likely attempting to get validation that what they're feeling is 'right'. It's got them into the rabbit hole to begin with, ironically.

I do feel that my last post intertwined with this post may give the misconception that she is that kind of girl. I won't deny the accusation completely. I understand that this is her first relationship in a long time, and she has always been very free spirited. Her and I are both learning the ropes together. I do however trust her a lot, even though from what you guys have heard, it may not seem so.

Maybe this question wasn't right for the forums. Re-thinking the whole situation, i guess there isn't really much advice you guys could give me on this one other than the cliche, "break up with her" statement. Like i said earlier, i was peaking in emotion when i wrote this, and wasn't necessarily thinking straight