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PostPosted: Sun May 22, 2016 11:06 pm 
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What is usually the best kind of approach when trying to meet women in public without creeping her out? I'm moving back to Seattle soon and wont have a big network of friends so how would one do it solo?

Gym's, Grocery stores, etc..? I dont dance so Its tough to break the ice with a girl at the club for me.


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PostPosted: Sun May 22, 2016 11:30 pm 
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The approach where you are just curious about her. What she is like. That's all.

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PostPosted: Mon May 23, 2016 2:06 am 
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The approach where you are just curious about her. What she is like. That's all.

So Why do women act so reluctant when you do that ? lol

What part of the world do you live in? I need to move there. Here in Alaska if you approach a women saying something very general its considered taboo. Everybody around will look at you. I am attractive, and the tall dark and handsome category fits me very easily. Colored eyes long eye eyelashes. So Its not about looks at all.

What do you think could be the issue


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The approach where you are just curious about her. What she is like. That's all.

So Why do women act so reluctant when you do that ? lol

What part of the world do you live in? I need to move there. Here in Alaska if you approach a women saying something very general its considered taboo. Everybody around will look at you. I am attractive, and the tall dark and handsome category fits me very easily. Colored eyes long eye eyelashes. So Its not about looks at all.

What do you think could be the issue
You know that this seems like an excuse. No matter where you live, a guy approaching a girl will make people look. The normal, everyday guy doesn't approach women that they don't know.

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The approach where you are just curious about her. What she is like. That's all.

So Why do women act so reluctant when you do that ? lol

What part of the world do you live in? I need to move there. Here in Alaska if you approach a women saying something very general its considered taboo. Everybody around will look at you. I am attractive, and the tall dark and handsome category fits me very easily. Colored eyes long eye eyelashes. So Its not about looks at all.

What do you think could be the issue
You know that this seems like an excuse. No matter where you live, a guy approaching a girl will make people look. The normal, everyday guy doesn't approach women that they don't know.
true so what could be a solution to it then? Just approach them ? I never go up to a girl from her backside,
I try to make solid eye contact so she sees then ill walk up to her and go from there.


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Give some details. The only thing that is obvious at this point is that you approach from the front and make eye contact while being self conscious about people who may be watching.

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Give some details. The only thing that is obvious at this point is that you approach from the front and make eye contact while being self conscious about people who may be watching.

Im just speaking in general if you read my OP a bit more closely lol. I approach in all cases and many times the woman is just reluctant unless She knows you through other friends.


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Give some details. The only thing that is obvious at this point is that you approach from the front and make eye contact while being self conscious about people who may be watching.

Im just speaking in general if you read my OP a bit more closely lol. I approach in all cases and many times the woman is just reluctant unless She knows you through other friends.
I never implied that you didn't approach. You said that women are reluctant when you express curiosity about them and it's taboo to approach where you live. Do you actually have an issue or are you just passing the time by asking general questions?

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Give some details. The only thing that is obvious at this point is that you approach from the front and make eye contact while being self conscious about people who may be watching.

Im just speaking in general if you read my OP a bit more closely lol. I approach in all cases and many times the woman is just reluctant unless She knows you through other friends.
I never implied that you didn't approach. You said that women are reluctant when you express curiosity about them and it's taboo to approach where you live. Do you actually have an issue or are you just passing the time by asking general questions?
lol my issue is why do they get weirded out so easily if you approach them casually? they dont seem interested and I dont know what to do except to be myself and keep it simple. Which is why I am asking you for some for tips my friend. On how you approach them in public and how do you go about it?

For example I approach a girl at hot yoga after a workout and say hey good job, but after a short "thanks" there is no opening for a conversation. because she just walks away into her locker room lol.


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For example I approach a girl at hot yoga after a workout and say hey good job, but after a short "thanks" there is no opening for a conversation. because she just walks away into her locker room lol.
This is what I was asking for...more detail.

Your opener is lazy and it only allows for a "thanks" unless you follow up. Why not ask how long she's been doing hot yoga or how often she works out? You don't introduce yourself and don't ask what her name is. When you approach, it is your responsibility to get her to talk and not look or openings.

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For example I approach a girl at hot yoga after a workout and say hey good job, but after a short "thanks" there is no opening for a conversation. because she just walks away into her locker room lol.
This is what I was asking for...more detail.

Your opener is lazy and it only allows for a "thanks" unless you follow up. Why not ask how long she's been doing hot yoga or how often she works out? You don't introduce yourself and don't ask what her name is. When you approach, it is your responsibility to get her to talk and not look or openings.
Ok, it was still in the yoga room when I told her that, I walked outside in the lobby but instead she just walked into her locker room without stopping by. Women are super standoffish out here I dont get it


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Give some details. The only thing that is obvious at this point is that you approach from the front and make eye contact while being self conscious about people who may be watching.

Im just speaking in general if you read my OP a bit more closely lol. I approach in all cases and many times the woman is just reluctant unless She knows you through other friends.
If you're finding women are standoffish a lot :

Either

You're not as good looking as you think
You're creepy as fuck but are good looking


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Give some details. The only thing that is obvious at this point is that you approach from the front and make eye contact while being self conscious about people who may be watching.

Im just speaking in general if you read my OP a bit more closely lol. I approach in all cases and many times the woman is just reluctant unless She knows you through other friends.
If you're finding women are standoffish a lot :

Either

You're not as good looking as you think
You're creepy as fuck but are good looking
How about men outnumbering the woman here 3 to 1? I feel that is one reason because they just have options out the ass lol

I need to know what can make a guy creepy even if he is good looking? Could you throw any examples of that? Because women will never tell me


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women are shy. women are cautious when approached by a random guy at a random place. unless she is a ts, you're going to get some resistance.
did you expect her to say "let me give you a blow job in the locker room" as soon as you said "nice job"?
you need to lead her where you want. unless she is a ts, she is not going to lead.
and it's a numbers game. 95% of women are just not interested in meeting a random guy. so it's your job to find the other 5%
and you need to be more persistent. sometimes women give you a soft rejection to see how bad you want them. you need to keep pushing a little more after the soft rejection until you get a hard rejection.
and you know what? approaching random women IS weird. it's something most men don't do.


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women are shy. women are cautious when approached by a random guy at a random place. unless she is a ts, you're going to get some resistance.
did you expect her to say "let me give you a blow job in the locker room" as soon as you said "nice job"?
you need to lead her where you want. unless she is a ts, she is not going to lead.
and it's a numbers game. 95% of women are just not interested in meeting a random guy. so it's your job to find the other 5%
and you need to be more persistent. sometimes women give you a soft rejection to see how bad you want them. you need to keep pushing a little more after the soft rejection until you get a hard rejection.
and you know what? approaching random women IS weird. it's something most men don't do.

great points but some parts dont make any sense. If approaching women you dont know IS weird then what, do you approach women you know? lol whats the point of that ? you already know her.

Im speaking on approaching a women that has been glancing at you and you walk up and introduce yourself. Is that considered WEIRD too? LOL


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