which is better the silent" type or highly socialable pua?



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PostPosted: Fri May 20, 2016 3:39 am 
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Which one would you prefer to be the silent type (lone wolf) or the highly socialable type of pua?....the ones that have a large socialable group of friends? And remember both types do get laid.


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PostPosted: Fri May 20, 2016 6:52 am 
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Sociable.

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Being sociable, outgoing and having a large circle around you is better in every situation possible in the world rather than a lone wolf.

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I think it's irrelevant

If you are the introverted type, embrace it, be a calm, smooth and confident seducer, but be aware of being the serious quiet lame-o

If you are extroverted, embrace, girls like a guy who projects a fun vibe, but be aware of dancing monkey syndrome, this can fuck you up

Embrace but don't cross the lines that cock blocks yourself

60 years of challenge book talks about this into great depth and you are not doomed if you are introverted, far from it, maybe more effective

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I have managed to have a hybrid of both. I love working under the radar. It compliments my natural mysterious aura. But if someone chats or I chat someone up, I break down their walls and we are the loudest people in the room. People are "hm, I thought he was quiet" which adds intrigue. One cutie at work opened me with like "you're quiet...but in a good way". I just smiled and said I will chat with her later.

I have lone wolfed it for years, but I appreciate the social circles as I am currently creating my social circles



I definitely create a bubble with the people I talk to. There are times when I have to step up and be the social guy because everyone's being insecure about taking the leadership role. Definitely work to your strengths. Being a silent type works for me most of the times because that is how I am.

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Niiice thanks for your honest remarks mf's n I say that with utmost respects fellow puas. Both newbies n oldiea as fu%&k.


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You can be a lone wolf who is also highly sociable...

With people that you want to be sociable with.


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Being sociable, outgoing and having a large circle around you is better in every situation possible in the world rather than a lone wolf.

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This.

On an OVERALL basis, being sociable is just going to give you more opportunities to meet women obviously. Having a sociable lifestyle is better. On a one to one basis, like if you meet a girl, both are more or less the same. You can be silent and sleep with "Jenny" or you can be sociable and sleep with "Jenny." But being sociable will let you meet more "Jennys."


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So introverts should chop off their dick and sell it on ebay ;)

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What does it matter if both the social guy and the lone wolf both get girls in the end?

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What does it matter if both the social guy and the lone wolf both get girls in the end?
It doesnt really. I was just making the pt that an extroverted lifestyle gives you more opportunities to MEET women than an introverted one, just by the definition. Both dont really have a difference in picking up women individually. Just as a club promoter has more opportunities to meet women than an accountant. Doesnt mean you should be a club promoter, and both can get women. As Drag said, whatever you are embrace it. You dont need to change yourself too radically just to get girls.


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What does it matter if both the social guy and the lone wolf both get girls in the end?
It doesnt really. I was just making the pt that an extroverted lifestyle gives you more opportunities to MEET women than an introverted one, just by the definition. Both dont really have a difference in picking up women individually. Just as a club promoter has more opportunities to meet women than an accountant. Doesnt mean you should be a club promoter, and both can get women. As Drag said, whatever you are embrace it. You dont need to change yourself too radically just to get girls.
There are lots of introverted club promoters, I am friends with several.

The introvert/extrovert dichotomy is largely misunderstood. Introverts do like engaging with people, typically on a 'deeper' level - but they need time to recharge and can find themselves exhausted by interacting with several people in a short time frame (makes sense given the energy they put-forth in their interactions). Extroverts GET their energy from engaging with others, they're like humming birds going from flower to flower - the interactions are typically short/or more surface-level, so it makes sense too how they'd be able to engage with more people in the same time frame as the introvert, yet not feel exhausted.


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