I just graduated from college. I was seeing a girl who is staying at college for summer school. The night before I left, we were going to hook up, but I decided to put myself in control and tell her we should be just friends, since we are going to be really far from each other. I have some friends who are also down there for the summer, and I told her that I would come visit. Its been a week( I haven’t texted her because I’m trying to show that it doesn’t bother me), and my friend told me she already is with another guy. So my question is, how do I maintain the attraction, so when I go down there I can still hook up with her?

Just cross that bridge when it happens. Before you visit, give her some notice so she can find time to meet up with you.

For future reference, when you have the chance to hook up with a girl and she wants to hook up with you just don't stop it and say let's be friends so you can hook up at a later date.

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Lol... This has got to be one of the dumbest things I've read in a while... You were abt to hook up and you decided to make her a friend?! Come on man... What was the purpose of that

Good job, you showed your dick who's the boss! LMFAO

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Yeah I realize it was not the best move. I was thinking it would demonstrate high value that I’m turning her down before I leave.

You do realize the 'other guy' didn't turn her down, right?

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Very true, guess i messed that up. I read that even when i mess up, i can just go back into building rapport and basically start the steps over. Should text/call her soon, or just wait until I’m thinking about visiting ?

Not unless it would lead to hooking up.

In the meantime pursue other girls.

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Right, I'm pursuing other girls. She was just really cute and cool, I would like to hook up with her again. I don’t know if I should call her soon and talk to her, so she stays interested and knows I'm still interested in her, or just wait when I'm actually going to go down for a visit and see if I cant try to reignite the attraction.

Just ping her with a funny/sexual SMS once in a while.

Ask for titty pics.

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