Hey Guys,

I'm sorry for the long post and thanks in advance for all the help.
So I broke up with my girlfriend two days ago. I wasn't that happy about our relationship (wrote about this in a post earlier) but this last week and a half things have been good very so I decided to give it another chance. Two days ago after spending the afternoon together I went to her place. I was just chilling there in her when she gets a text from a guy and she throws the phone quickly on the bed face down (she has never acted like this when she receives any other text message).
I saw the name on the text right before she threw her phone and it was this guys which she had told me two weeks ago that was planning on staying at her apartment that she shares with her roommate. The guy is friends with both girls. When she told me this I told her I didn't feel comfortable in a relationship that happening, especially because I have seen the guy hit on both of them. She says that fine he will tell him to stay somewhere else but he really likes her roommate. Two days later he got a voice note from him (it popped up on her screen while we were eating" I stayed cool and didn't say anything. She saw it and didn't open the voice note when she usually opens any voice note she gets to find out what it's about.

So back to the text message I pick up the phone and it says "Dear let me know when I can come over." She went crazy I have never seen her act like that trying to get the phone away from me at what ever cost. I read some other message where they had been having a couple conversations before. She started crying and said that he was only writing her to leave his stuff because he didn't know any where else to leave it since he didn't have a home because he lost his job. I just said it was over that I couldn't believe it, that if she lies to me about this that she would lie about other things, that I can't trust her. Well she stood in front of her apartment door for 15 minutes crying and screaming saying that I'm the best thing that happened in her life and to not leave. I kept telling her that I'm leaving and that we can talk some other time but that I was pissed. Well she finally lets me leave and then sends me a message when I get home that said this.

"I'll tell you the truth he was going to stay at my place this week but I lied to you for a good reason because I was doing good to someone else who just lost his job and didn't have where to live. I was going to sleep over at your house while he was here, so that you wouldn't find out. I'm sorry that I begged you to stay, you don't deserve it. If you would really love me so much like you say you do you wouldn't breakup with me for lying because of something good I'm doing. I'm not going to change because of you and whoever I want should be able to stay at my house. I can't believe you read my phone." She then some stuff about how she can't believe how I treated her in a fight we had last week "both of us were drunk"

Clearly.

What a shining example of a good Samaritan. He got kicked out in the cold, and she was going to keep his poor little penis stiff and warm.

I love how women can twist and justify their slutty actions so quickly it becomes your fault.

Time to trade up Bro.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

You cheated on her and you were planning to cheat again. The relationship clearly isn't working as you two just lie and cheat or attempt to. Move on.

What? I never cheated on her

Thats the first thing I thought when I read the text message. After she wrote today I thought maybe she is right how I can be so cold hearted but I thinks resistance from trying to keep me from moving on.

It's never going to be her fault. Never ever.

Justifying her behavior by sprinkling you with guilt.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

She's telling you some bs for sure. But come on now you're bsing lol

hahahahaha great point