Hi guys,

First off all thanks for a great community.

I need a second opinion how to analyze a situationen.

Short background story:
met HB8 at a bar 1,5 months ago gamed her well. Took her home that night. Escalated well with kino, did everything other than sex (sex stopped by ASD/LMR).... The weekend after she texted/called went to her place and did the deed. After that I laid her 3-4 times (close to every weekend).

But now the situation I would like some advice on...

Yesterday she texted me this "just wanna be honest, I don't know what I want or don't want. I'm probably at a place where I don't need anything too serious, but I don't know how you feel? Now you know where I stand. Im not saying I don't wanna see you, and its up to you now"

Is it the LJBF routine, a shit test, a way to open up for FB, or is it time to next her?

I have allready responded with something like "I'm in the 7th heaven and when you're out of your funk, there might still be space... It's up to me? Like see you Friday or saturday?"

Let me know what you think. I'm unsure about my own intentions if i see potential for a LTR or FB or just next her.

F*CK her good and hard several times and her tune will change.

Don't let her bait you into answering the question. Simply "We'll see..." will suffice.

Thanks for the reply n2thevoid... Thinking about no contact for the week, to make her sweat... What Is your opinion on this? Or perhaps the best scenario is just to plow through like I never received the message. I'm splitted, there is a good chance she would contact me this weekend when she is out drinking/partying and possibly a lay again.

Both of you are basically at the same place....She said nothing "serious" so I'm assuming that means she's down for FWB. I wouldve just seen her and banged her again. If she resists banging well then thats her trying to friend you. I dont think you need no contact and all that. did she say she will see you friday?

Jesus man why are you still in 'game mode' with a girl you've already had sex with?

Honestly that type of long text doesn't mean much or change anything as it's perfectly normal when you're young to not want anything seriously heck I'm 28 and still figuring it out though I have a good idea.

I would almost just ignore the text myself, but something simple and neutral like 'we'll see ' or 'lets go out tomorrow ' is fine... I can tell you I have no problem bedding women and it's because I don't type out long text or text a particular girl every day anymore and am just positive/neutral and brief in my texting. If they are available for me then they are, if not, then I'm on something else! Gone are the days I type out feelings on texts.

I was out with a good friend of mine and this dude was blowing up her phone while we were out. She showed me other guys in her phone that she was talking to these long stupid texts and told me how annoying they were!

Friday was a No go for both of us, when asking about Saturday she kind of flakes with "that depends on how crazy Friday becomes"

You're prob right should have been more into relationship management mode... Any tips on proceeding? Just forget the msg about her unsure feelings and lay her when the possibility arise?

Answer this With "Chocolate."

Then move to this;

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