Thank you nuked. I downloaded Hypnotica, it's so much better than Ross Jeffries. I really like it!

[/quote]Hypnotica looks like a dope.Ive seen him in david deangelos programs.I would trust ross jeffries over him anyday.[/quote]

You are arguably the whiniest guy I've seen on these forums.

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Hypnotica looks like a dope.Ive seen him in david deangelos programs.I would trust ross jeffries over him anyday.[/quote]

Your a big man calling me a whino behind your computer screen you little bitch.If you want to act like a man dont act hard on a forum , do it i person you little nerd.And learn how to post a quote you dumb cunt.

Hey Now, We don't need to see who is the toughest internet Guru here!

The best Confidence builder. I been trying it out on Military women which is funny because I know I am going to hear it bad and get turned down which is good. Now listen to what I am going to say. You might be like bullshit but I think it works.

Alot of guys are not Confident because they are afraid of Rejection. So how do you build Confidence. Go out looking to get Rejected. Use the cheesiest, craziest, and funniest lines out there. If a chick likes you because of it hey it work but most of them will tell you to fuck off or something along that line. Once your desensitize of getting rejected you should have no problem going up to a HB and gaming her. If she rejects you. Your not going to care because you no longer fear rejection.

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That makes alot of sense and ive stared doing that on myspace.I know this is no were near as powerfull as face to face but i think its a start.

Perhaps one could ad Demonic Confidence here too. I've not tested it myself, but I start today.

I agree with Whoopie, just go out for a few sessions with the aim of getting rejected with the stupidest lines ever! Its seduction made fun, and at the very least, it will eliminate any AA. PS what up with you dudes arguing? Spread the love

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Davidoff, I'm shorter than you. Quit making excuses. I've seen short guys bag the hottest blondes in the bar. (This height thing used to be a major problem for me)

The best confidence builder for me?
This: any-given-sunday-speech-vt3936.html

I personally think that the best confidence building technique out there is just to talk to everybody with confidence. It desnt have to be girls hell it can be all guys. as long as you walk away feeling confident u accomplishd something

[quote="Davidoff"]I need so much help in this situation its not even funny.For example when i look at a hot chick and she doesnt look back i get deeply hurt.In my expierience the only chicks that look are the ones i dont want.Is it just a thing with hot babes that they act stuck up or is it that average girls are just desperate.I am a good looking guy,I work out eat healthy and take care of myself but i still cant seem to get my confidence nailed.I make stupid excuses to myself that maybe its because im not tall enouth (177cm which is about 5`10).I let the outside world get to me and destroy what ever confidence i can actually build.Its like the confidence i make just escapes my body whenever something negative happens.This sux!!! I just ordered brian tracys the pschychology of achievment but im sure that wont nail my inner game.Im thinking NLP but i really dont have a clue.Can some please help me out.I feel trapped.[/quote]

Davidoff,
This sounds like social anxiety. One of social anxiety's defining characteristics is a fear of being judged by others, and a belief that others are analyzing everything you do and say critically.

I should know, I've only recently started to cure my own.

How? The biggest building block in the wall of confidence is managing your thoughts, by a technique called Cognitive Behavior Therapy(CBT).

You can either go to a therapist familiar with the technique, or buy "Overcoming Social Anxiety and Shyness" by Gillian Butler.

If you struggle to motivate yourself, try the therapist. The advantage is you'll have him/her behind you motivating you and guiding you. Otherwise, use the book. It's cheaper than a single therapy session, and will let you keep the problem completely private.

However, a word of warning.

I've seen people buy the book and then say:
"I bought the book, and read most of it, but it did no good."

Of course it didn't. Unless you're willing to commit 100% to this and do exercises based on it, all the CBT books in the world won't help you. It's not a magic bullet, but it works and works well, dammit.

I may post some stuff up later on other techniques.

Good luck,
Negsta.

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Your a smart guy.I do have social anxiety and i have seen a therapist about this.But ive found seeing a therapist keeps you broken because they want you to come back and aint gonna help you get better(atleast in my experience)

I've recently started going to toastmasters. Steve Celeste suggested this in David D's interviews with dating gurus. I think by facing my fears and taking care of my fear of public speaking I will get to be much better.

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I have done all the confidence books and programs listed on this post some work good some dont. I guess it all matters how far down the rabbit hole you want to travel. Bar none the RSD is my pick! I have let go of mostly all of my social anxity and I didnt have to remember a single pickup line. You may have a litle mental withdrawl with some of this material since it is changing your core perception on reality. just give it time.

That applies to most people but not all, NOTHING breeds confidence like success but many of ufs spent years talking down to ourselves that we might give up before we even get any success to feel confident about. If its a product you are looking for I would suggest the following:

-Hypnotica's Ultimate Inner Game
- Ross Jeffries Unstoppable confidence

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hey guys. i just joined and this is my first post, so i dont know if its in the right place, but non the less here is my question.

how do i develop thick skin? My skin is very thin and anything external can really fuck with my head and affect how I view myself, and my current plan is to approach groups of people and ask them to touch my nipple or something stupid so they tell me to fuck off or laugh at me, which will systematically desensitize myself to being shaken

I HAVE A HUGE FEAR OF FAILURE, HUGE,

what other people think of me means everything. I want it to mean nothing. The only way I can see getting over this is by getting use to failing

What it really boils down to is I was raised to be insecure and trade my status for validation, but im trying to change my hardwiring and its really hard to do. I’m pretty good at putting on the alpha male mask and playing the part as if im unaffected and have a really strong frame of reality that no-one can penetrate, but its just an image I project, and I want it to be for real.

Because of this I don’t live in the moment, instead I’m just in my head wanting to be noticed and scared of being humiliated, I feel like I’m scamming everyone I meet, just trying to have them perceive me in a certain way. But ‘just being myself’ doesnt work either, cause then I’m just the scared bitch who sits on the side lines.

What I’m really asking is how to change my internal dialogue, cause mine always says “you’ll fail, you wont be successful and you don’t deserve that beautiful hottie that just walked by”

anyway, any words of wisdom on how to correct whatever deficiency I have would be much appreciated.