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Long story short,
Got into pick up almost 3 years ago with an end goal to go through hundreds of women to find some proper relationships, and maybe settling down one day in the future (5 years from now, 8 years from then)
I had just recently got out of a 3 year relationship before this, got into pick up, started gaming, and less than a month i was over the chick, with dates left and right, one even with an hb9-10 model.
Before i could fully immerse into the world of pick up, the end goal came early. I met a girl that met all my expectations and surpassed some of them as well. Ended up taking a chance and got with her.
Fast forward to now, she has an pretty extremely religious family, and after an incident i saw the father, and it did not get off on the right foot. I met with them today and cooled things down, but they are putting immense pressure to get married, the father will not have it any other way.
Now i loved this chick enough to put aside pick up, but i do NOT want to get married right now, and its at a point where we either get married or say our goodbyes. There are many pros and cons for each side, i love the bitch and dont want to let her go, but at the same time i DO NOT want marriage and i dont want anything to do with her family.
The more pressure she puts on me, the more i want to leave and never look back.... i was looking forward to experiencing many more types of women (been with a bunch already), but the urge to fuck a wide variety is still there, ive brought up polygamy, but she isnt having it.
I just cant figure out what to do here, and im under alot of stress. I would appreciate anybody with mature and useful insight, and i dont need to hear RSD go fuckin game some girls bro type of advice.
Peace
You are either stupid or desperate. So i take to second one and say it is a fatal decision. You already asked this question, do i want to marry with her? The answer is no. You got your answer. None of us will say go marry with her because you do not want to. If i were you, i would not marry who is spendable for me. Se seems spendable for you. let me see your future with that chick 'breakup'. So or so there is no future i see, according to your writing and your mentality, which i have also the same. Time to say goodbye.
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