hi all,

this is turning to be a very complex case now.

-this new target is really gettin me hectic schedule figurin out new techniques....and i desparately need some cool suggestions to pick her up.

-observations till now have made it clear tht she is talkative. but m unable to go her cube(she's in my office) every timefor tht, so except hi - hello most of the time we chat thru IM. tht too aint much....

-the first time(1-2 times infact) we talked, really had a good time. but i guess she's got the idea tht m flirtin tht's y she try n ignore me sometimes

-but this ignorance is not str8 as she atleast responds in a manner or so...

......hv tried :-

few openers,
number game,
jokes,
asked interests (she talked a bit abt music but talkin abt movies she was monotonous(though movies is her interest)),
tried anchoring(online) but not very good results....


***for next step need all ur advice...

***URGENT

i think this one will also require your analysis.

"
me: which was the last movie you watched.

she: XYZ and tht too 1 n half yr back coz dont get much time of work

me: y u r busy in work or wat

she: yes, also dont find frd available to go with me

me: heyyyyy, once m back from ABC will definitely make a solid movie plan for you. all you have to do is to take some time out for it.

she: ok,lets c

"


......did i blew it off.....

......if yes, then how to reconcile.....


please ack..

Ok man, I want to help you. But please for future reference be a little more conscious of your content in your post. The post is hard to follow for poor spelling and grammer. It doesn't have to be perfect but a little more effort would be nice.

Alight, on to your issue. I think you are doing fine as of the present if she wants to go to a movie with you. However, I don't believe your first date should be a movie. Ask her to join you for coffee on a Sunday or something. First dates should be casual. A movie is cool, but you pay no attention to each other unless its the physical kind. Hang out with her, get to know her better.

thank u very much nuke....


m srry for all grammar mistakes and obstruce explanation of my case...


u c got a habbit of chattin and dont follow grammar so strictly.....

newazz thks again


hey all........

need more inputs !!!

Basically, take her to somewhere low-energy like Nuked said. Then, get to know her and show her the postive things about you. Don't put a lot of pressure on her, but make her feel good as well as LAUGH. Laughter always helps.

As Style says, Rapport= Trust + Comfort.

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